dont invite your friends over to meet your new girlfriend, then get angry after they leave and tell her you KNOW she was flirting with them....thats really stupid and qualifies you technically as a first class jerk....
when in a supposed committed relationship, dont leave your ex your power of attorney because she has more of a history with you. It makes the new GF feel like she is just on loan....
ditto for whose name is on your checks....
and as beneficiary on your insurance policies
and lets not talk about the will...
and when your new gf tells you that your ex wanted to know if her name was still on all of these, dont turn it around and say your new GF is just jealous when what she really is, is concerned...for you
dont introduce your gf to your family on Christmas as your friend. Especially if you are very out....
the xmas stocking for your ex needs to be sent to her or put in the trash, not back in the xmas box
DONT show people the face your gf makes when she is coming...you might not ever see that face again...
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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