Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Transguy
Preferred Pronoun?: He
Relationship Status: single
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Central West Coast of Florida
Posts: 5,204
Thanks: 34,866
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In order to feel loved...
I need to be able to trust before I can feel loved and in order for that trust to take form, I need to see that what you say and what you do match up as one and the same.
I am a deep and constant thinker and need for you to reach those depths with me. I can't live well in shallow land.
I need emotional intimacy as much as I need sexual intimacy, if not more.
I need to know we are on the same team and that you have my back.
I need honesty and truth
I need for you to be doing your work as far as your health goes; emotional, mental, spiritual and physical health. And I need for you to gently kick my ass if I am not doing mine.
I need shared laughter and a time to be like kids when appropriate to do so. Humor is important to me.
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“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
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