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Originally Posted by Jess
Not being an adoptee, I hope this is not seen as intrusive.
I do think sometimes the issues that our partners face or have faced need to be seen by us and appreciated. I have had two partners now who were adopted and it is amazing how very differently they have each dealt with the issues that come with it.
I also am a firm believer in the notion that the universe never gives us more than we can handle and that it works with divine timing. Meaning.. when the stuff surfaces, it is usually exactly when it needs to, as we have become ready to address it.
I am very grateful for this thread and will back out now to not distract. You all are incredible folks! The willingness to share is nothing but pure strength and grace. Thank you.
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Thanks for posting!
I think for those of us who have been abandoned in a huge way early on, having an understanding supportive partner is a wonderful and very important thing!
I like the idea of things surfacing when we are ready to handle them.
Again, thanks for posting and being so supportive!