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Originally Posted by chrisbutch
Can i ask some advice here?? When is appropriate to tell some that you are stone?? early in the relationship or wait until you get to know them better??
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I beleive it should be shared once you know the relatiosnhip is heading to a level of romance and sex.
Vanilla, It feels derogatory, yet it is nearly universally understood ..
I agree the tern Vanilla has always sound derogatory to me.. I am stone and consider myself exciting with over flowing passion not afraid to express myself. Vanilla sounds borrowing and limited. but I guess not being part of the BDSM community I would be called Vanilla.
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