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Originally Posted by Medusa
So, I'm completely out at work. Have been since day 1. ( I find it much easier to just bust it on out rather than let them find out later because I have a big mouth and don't do well keeping my business to myself).
Many folks at work have either met Jack or at least seen photos of her (on my desk). Today, someone who I have only worked with over the phone came to my office and seemed surprised that Jack is a big honkin' Butch.
Her words were: "It's not that you're a Lesbian, it's that I expected your girlfriend to look...you know...like YOU." (she meant feminine and in make-up etc.)
Anyone else had this happen where folks assume your partner must also be Femme just because you are?
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yes....the worst part is when they say why not just be with a bio male....ive tried explaining this over and over some get it some dont...
Im sorry you had this experience i hope you co worker wakes up and smells the coffee
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