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Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:19 AM

Make time for each other..........and the other side of that token - make time for yourselves.

No one can *be* your everything - do all the things you like to do together, but don't forget you had friends and family before the relationship.....make time for them just as you did before.

Tuck lil notes in their lunchbox, bag, purse etc

Be silly together - Life is too short to be too serious all the the time.

Be each other's support system, even if you can't mend the hurt or upset, you can listen and just be there for them.

Be you always - You are the person they fell for -

Accept them as they are - if you've made the right decision you don't need to try to change them.

Be true to him/her and most of all be true to yourself.

If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts....

Go to neutral corners until you can comunicate on adult levels -

Most of all - love with with all you have, but always love yourself as much.

Remember they fell in love with you - not the you they want you to be.

Remember you fell in love with them, not the them you want them to be.

09-23-2011, 07:19 AM	#199
Abigail Crabby Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Princess Relationship Status: Single, but sociable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mount Airy, NC Posts: 4,226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,554 Thanked 9,668 Times in 2,484 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Make time for each other..........and the other side of that token - make time for yourselves. No one can be your everything - do all the things you like to do together, but don't forget you had friends and family before the relationship.....make time for them just as you did before. Tuck lil notes in their lunchbox, bag, purse etc Be silly together - Life is too short to be too serious all the the time. Be each other's support system, even if you can't mend the hurt or upset, you can listen and just be there for them. Be you always - You are the person they fell for - Accept them as they are - if you've made the right decision you don't need to try to change them. Be true to him/her and most of all be true to yourself. If you argue - be kind - words hurt, name calling hurts.... Go to neutral corners until you can comunicate on adult levels - Most of all - love with with all you have, but always love yourself as much. Remember they fell in love with you - not the you they want you to be. Remember you fell in love with them, not the them you want them to be. __________________ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust Turns whatever happens to you into a positive...