Actually it was ALH who came into the cock thread and talked about cock centric crash said she'd use a cock be it hers, femme brought, etc etc. I don't really know why it's in the lesbian zone (this thread) anyways that's how it rolled out I'd have to go back and cross post to see how this particular thread came about.
I do think it's ok to say that one isn't cock centric since for some of us a cock is much more than a plastic appendage.
:shrug: I dunno I could be wrong.