What if you don't like Butch Cock?

[The_Lady_Snow]

Actually it was ALH who came into the cock thread and talked about cock centric crash said she'd use a cock be it hers, femme brought, etc etc. I don't really know why it's in the lesbian zone (this thread) anyways that's how it rolled out I'd have to go back and cross post to see how this particular thread came about.



I do think it's ok to say that one isn't cock centric since for some of us a cock is much more than a plastic appendage.

:shrug: I dunno I could be wrong.

[The_Lady_Snow]

AHA!!

Originally Posted by AtLastHome
I find this refreshing! Sometimes I feel like there is not much room here for folks that are just not cock-centric. We are just not all the same and the last thing I want sex to be is rigidly defined in any form!

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

Thank you bud. I appreciate not being bashed just because I'm not madly deeply in love with assistive devices. Yes, I agree that sex should not be rigidly defined in any form. I (personally) also view "cock" as whateva I use to please my girl. Whether I am using a dildo, a plug, beads, whips, chains, softness, gentleness, playtime with other things (that I won't mention), whether it is a femme cock, butch cock, used cock, new cock or my personal preference of my hands, fingers and tongue; it ALL starts in our hearts and what we give emotionally of ourselves. Least that is my opinion.

I don't personally think anyone said they did not like cock, they stated their different preferences on what their attach their phantom cock to, be it equipment, limbs, energy etc etc. It does seem crash did not understand why she was being singled out from her earlier posts in the Butch Cock Thread when she answered some really tough questions that were being asked.

Anyways, that's my take.


PS

It would be a good idea to have a thread where folks who do not use toys have a place to talk about it, I dunno if maybe the title of the thread could be changed cause I don't think it's about NOT liking butch cock, it could be about other ways of fucking, sex, making love, grunting and groaning or whatever it is you refer to it as when in the throws of passion or lust or what have you Where in the forums should this thread be I don't know cause I don't really believe that lesbians are the only one's who don't use toys and cocks that's kind of assuming a stereotype.

[Thinker]

Originally Posted by Dreams

in an effort to make some feel more comfy posting about what makes them feel un-comfy or just not their cup a tea or to just say "Hey i'm just not into Butch Cock"...don't be afraid this is space created just for you..no one should EVER feel like they are less than because of their likes or dislikes...all that is asked is be respectful..Please..

Originally Posted by crashhere4eva

This must be the thread you said you were gonna start in honor of me... Again, I neva said I am "uncomfy" with cock nor did I say anybody else should be. Please refer to a reply of your post in the Butch Cock thread. I feel perfectly "comfy" with all of my posts in the Butch Cock thread and was not disrespectful to anyone who has different preferences than I do. By the way tho, just for the record, since you are so focused on me being "comfy". PERSONALLY speaking (for my own personal life) I do not view my cock as a device neccessarily, my cock is whateva gets my girl off. Like you, I've had no complaints.

Originally Posted by Yellow band

111 posts later, welcome to the planet.....Really Dreams?

Regardless of the reason/purpose, the topic has been presented and the thread is open for discussion. Let's just focus on *that* and allow people to have the conversation in as constructive manner as possible.

It should go without saying that there are those who are not interested in butch cock or any other kind, and there's certainly nothing wrong with it.

If something presented here in these first few posts feels personal or "not quite right" to *you*, then please handle that with the person in question and do so privately.

And just to be clear, no one in particular is being "moderated" here. This is simply a moderation warning or "presence".....whatever you want to call it.......to curb this before it turns into something it doesn't need to be about.

Thinker (moderator)

[crashhere4eva]

Originally Posted by Thinker

Regardless of the reason/purpose, the topic has been presented and the thread is open for discussion. Let's just focus on *that* and allow people to have the conversation in as constructive manner as possible.

It should go without saying that there are those who are not interested in butch cock or any other kind, and there's certainly nothing wrong with it.

If something presented here in these first few posts feels personal or "not quite right" to *you*, then please handle that with the person in question and do so privately.

And just to be clear, no one in particular is being "moderated" here. This is simply a moderation warning or "presence".....whatever you want to call it.......to curb this before it turns into something it doesn't need to be about.

Thinker (moderator)

Hi Thinker/Moderator,
I was only defending myself from a direct attack by Dreams on how and what I had to say about my own personal experiences, preferences and opinions in the Butch Cock Thread. It started in the BC thread about post #582 and continued back and forth with a few of the ladies. Dreams took my initial/first post (not the entire conversation back and forth) in that thread and directly accused me of not liking cock, not feeling comfy with cock nor did I imply in any way that other people should be uncomfy with their feelings about cock. Dreams stated she would make a thread up and call it "What If You Don't Like Butch Cock" in my honor. I see that as a clear and direct provocation. I copied and pasted from the Butch Cock thread the following:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dreams
i'm gonna start a new thread just for you.. i'm gonna call it what if you don't like Butch Cock? only because of your past post you must feel there isnt a place you feel comfy in regards to this subject maybe you feel as though your hands,mouth passion feelings for her are your version of you how you relate to this thread...Butch Cock....many of us are very comfy with it, me being one. me personally i use every inch of my body,mind AND cock to please my partner..i don't get complaints..
BTW before you anyone gets upset please read my entire post...twice if you must..

MY RESPONSE:
Hi Dreams,
I neva said i do not like cock, refuse to use cock nor did I imply that I was "uncomfy" with it. I certainly did not imply that anyone else who uses it should be uncomfy with using it and loving it. If you took my posts that way, please don't because that is not what I implied. Miss Persiphone was asking PERSONAL OPINIONS to which I replied. I specified MY OPINION and I included the use of the cock. Seeing that you are so interested in my posts, please note that I said I have used a cock the Femme already had howeva do not prefer it. There was no implication that anybody should feel "uncomfy" with cock. I was answering her questions and how it related to MY OWN PERSONAL LIFE and MY EXPERIENCES. I am new and perhaps I misunderstood the thread and how all this works, if so I apologize. It's my understanding that I am allowed to reply to threads and if I need some correction or guidance on replying to threads, there are nice people to guide me. I am still learning the bfp thread etiquette. I do not see that Miss Persiphone had a problem with my responses (as they were directed to her and her question) With all that being said, if it pleases you to create a thread in honor of me and my passion, fingers, fist and tongue by all means creat it. It's a free planet

So, I apologize if I was out of line, I don't mean any disrespect (as I stated, I am still learning the bfp thread etiquette). It was obvious to me that I was being provoked. I defended myself and was not planning on carrying on with the charade. I merely wanted to speak in my defense. It is clearly a spoof thread and in my opinion should be deleted. At any rate, I am not here to make enemies, I did not come here to be flexed on by another butch/boi about my feelings regarding my cock, what my cock means to me, my experiences with cock etc and certainly not to be accused of not liking cock or that others should feel less than because of their own feelings. I came here to relax, enjoy people sharing, meet friends from other places etc etc. I did not come here to return to junior high school. This thread is dead to me because it was obviously a spoof on my posts in the BC thread. I'm not here to banter back n forth with other butches/bois or anybody for that matter. Spoof threads/attacks should be deleted in my opinion but that's just my opinion. Perhaps Dreams will delete it in a truce?

Respectfully Submitted,