Ok, this should be interesting. I'm going to work really hard on this.
1- Completely honest
2- Secure with themselves and financially (dont have to be rich, just able to fend for themselves)
3- health conscious (prefers organic, buys responsibly)
4- wants to live rural on a farm and a strong desire to become sustainable
5- adoring- submissive to me. Enjoys the type of dynamic that inspires a true female led relationship. They are strong, secure, able and highly intelligent- the simply allow me to be in charge because it "feels" right to them.
6- environmentally conscious - cares about the planet
7- open-minded - non-judgmental
8- adventurous and spontaneous - responsible most of the time yet can enjoy child like play.
9- deeply enjoys gardening and growing food
10- Loves animals-especially dogs!
11- enjoys deep family connections, including our own
12- Likes to clean and do laundry
I hate it! I cook!
13- allows me to touch them and submits to my sometimes aggressive and wild nature.
14- Isn't needy and doesnt get insecure at the amount of personal space I require. they too enjoy time a lone and able to enjoy their own space.
15- - for the past 10 years I've dated butch. I'm more open now and into the human. I prefer masculine appearance but have met some submissive femmes that bring out my own masculine energy. I have a lot of it and whoever I am with appreciates this about me. They can be masculine, butch, etc. just remember who is in charge! (wink)
16- enjoys the outdoors- camping, fishing, just being outside.
17- loves making our nice and a special place- nice flowers, organized, inviting for friends and family.
18- not afraid of hard work or getting dirty.
19- intelligent, able to hold conversation but isn't yapping in my ear all the time or hurting my brain with constant chatter.
20- enjoys good food and wine in moderation (I cook- I buy)
21- does not use drugs of any kind
22- who's idea of a perfect evening is sitting outside (or inside) by a toasty fire, having a glass of wine, maybe playing a game, eating, talking and just being in the moment.
at this point in my life I avoid any red flags whereas in the past I overlooked things. I only become committed once I know we are both invested in the long haul. I am slow moving, watching, studying and carefully making decisions.