I don't get the whole "older femme" thing. I mean, aren't we all older than someone? Even when we are in our 20s?
Aren't we all getting older every day?
I look at some of my patients and see those precious hands of theirs. I think....those hands diapered babies, took care of their kids, families, other people. Just because they are more mature than the used to be they are still the same hands.
I guess i would be considered "older" by some people. And then again by others i would be considered young.
As far as the love and romantic part....Love knows no age, but i do believe that partnering with someone who doesn't have the same interests, music, movies, ect can pose some challenges. But, such is life.
I have an aunt that was very wise. Some may find it morbid but i think i get her message. Her tombstone says this:
Where ye stand i once stood, where i lay you shall lay. It will happen.
Time keeps on moving....it doesn't stop for anyone.
It's all perspective, yes?
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people will forget what you did,
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