Straight friends are the exception here in CA. I am kinky, and I find some straight kinky folk to be on the creepy side. Strangely I haven't made a lot of friends from work. My former aide was great, but she has small children and now lives relatively far away. We just never kept up after I left that job.
Back home, in Ann Arbor, most of my friends were made during graduate school, so some straight, some gay. Mostly straight. Mostly guys. My closest friend from Ann Arbor is a gay man. He called the other night. It was great. We don't talk as much as we should. Combine cell phones with hearing loss and sometimes it's just not worth it.
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