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					Originally Posted by  *Anya*
					 
				 
				I do not think anyone is a narcissist for wanting a child-free wedding!  
			
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 I didn't say that. What I object to -- and was criticizing as selfish -- is making attending a wedding a hardship while expecting, even demanding, that people you supposedly care about endure that hardship. I don't get that. It's not joyful or celebratory. Even though people I love have done it, the choice to do that is not something that I respect.