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flapdoodle · 02-11-2015, 11:24 PM

Fabulous topic indeed.

I am not with the majority here, but, that matters not.

Those I'm attracted to and those I attract dig the fact that I do not "return" certain sexual favors. This does not mean I don't satisfy my partner, because, I do.

All too often they did not combust from what I was doing to them, but rather from things they were doing to me.

I have never just climbed into bed with a butch and made assumptions. Since I wait a significant amount of time before givin it up, I have ample opportunity to discuss, get to know...the desires of the butch I am with. I made darn sure of it. I too needed to be heard. A sexual need or kink expressed to me that is not something I am into, means, to me, we are not compatible, Period. I will not even go there, why bother? ...and yes, to me it really is that cut and dry.

Many i have dated expressed an interest in things such as BDSM. I am not interested in that. As much as I may have liked them, hot or not, it was Good-bye. I don't stick around thinking MY pussy will somehow change them into liking what I do or no longer liking or needing what they do with my wicked "pussy power" That's a game I never played.

I think problems occur when people don't take the time to discuss sex before hand, also, many want a relationship that makes them feel happy and are willing to do anything to have that "happy" feeling. I am not one of them.

I married a butch who does not desire what I do, and, I respect that. If she was to change her mind down the road and wanted me to explore her in ways I never have, again, a conversation would take place.

In the past, when asked if I would do this or that, I never thought of it as making a butch any less masculine, not at all. Simply personal preference.

I do not care what my wife or anyone else calls their genitals....again, to me, not an indication of butch or masculine or not, it's just a word, it's all just words.

So, I do not go digging for gold in my butches body parts...I let the gold flow downwards, but, I'm right there to catch it.

Thanks Tru, awesome thread!!!!!

02-11-2015, 11:24 PM	#129
flapdoodle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: I'm the Mrs. Preferred Pronoun?: reflexive Relationship Status: Married in 2013 Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: sing it Frankie baby Posts: 81 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 245 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 1073757	Fantastic Fabulous topic indeed. I am not with the majority here, but, that matters not. Those I'm attracted to and those I attract dig the fact that I do not "return" certain sexual favors. This does not mean I don't satisfy my partner, because, I do. All too often they did not combust from what I was doing to them, but rather from things they were doing to me. I have never just climbed into bed with a butch and made assumptions. Since I wait a significant amount of time before givin it up, I have ample opportunity to discuss, get to know...the desires of the butch I am with. I made darn sure of it. I too needed to be heard. A sexual need or kink expressed to me that is not something I am into, means, to me, we are not compatible, Period. I will not even go there, why bother? ...and yes, to me it really is that cut and dry. Many i have dated expressed an interest in things such as BDSM. I am not interested in that. As much as I may have liked them, hot or not, it was Good-bye. I don't stick around thinking MY pussy will somehow change them into liking what I do or no longer liking or needing what they do with my wicked "pussy power" That's a game I never played. I think problems occur when people don't take the time to discuss sex before hand, also, many want a relationship that makes them feel happy and are willing to do anything to have that "happy" feeling. I am not one of them. I married a butch who does not desire what I do, and, I respect that. If she was to change her mind down the road and wanted me to explore her in ways I never have, again, a conversation would take place. In the past, when asked if I would do this or that, I never thought of it as making a butch any less masculine, not at all. Simply personal preference. I do not care what my wife or anyone else calls their genitals....again, to me, not an indication of butch or masculine or not, it's just a word, it's all just words. So, I do not go digging for gold in my butches body parts...I let the gold flow downwards, but, I'm right there to catch it. Thanks Tru, awesome thread!!!!!