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Old 02-11-2015, 11:24 PM   #1
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Fabulous topic indeed.

I am not with the majority here, but, that matters not.

Those I'm attracted to and those I attract dig the fact that I do not "return" certain sexual favors. This does not mean I don't satisfy my partner, because, I do.

All too often they did not combust from what I was doing to them, but rather from things they were doing to me.

I have never just climbed into bed with a butch and made assumptions. Since I wait a significant amount of time before givin it up, I have ample opportunity to discuss, get to know...the desires of the butch I am with. I made darn sure of it. I too needed to be heard. A sexual need or kink expressed to me that is not something I am into, means, to me, we are not compatible, Period. I will not even go there, why bother? ...and yes, to me it really is that cut and dry.

Many i have dated expressed an interest in things such as BDSM. I am not interested in that. As much as I may have liked them, hot or not, it was Good-bye. I don't stick around thinking MY pussy will somehow change them into liking what I do or no longer liking or needing what they do with my wicked "pussy power" That's a game I never played.

I think problems occur when people don't take the time to discuss sex before hand, also, many want a relationship that makes them feel happy and are willing to do anything to have that "happy" feeling. I am not one of them.

I married a butch who does not desire what I do, and, I respect that. If she was to change her mind down the road and wanted me to explore her in ways I never have, again, a conversation would take place.

In the past, when asked if I would do this or that, I never thought of it as making a butch any less masculine, not at all. Simply personal preference.

I do not care what my wife or anyone else calls their genitals....again, to me, not an indication of butch or masculine or not, it's just a word, it's all just words.

So, I do not go digging for gold in my butches body parts...I let the gold flow downwards, but, I'm right there to catch it.

Thanks Tru, awesome thread!!!!!
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I totally get off on tasting myself in my lover's kiss.
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I totally get off on tasting myself in my lover's kiss.

I love this.

Delicious, in so many ways.

Yes. Yes.

Yes.

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I know what goes on in my own mind when I'm totally enmeshed between a femme's thighs. BUT, I was wondering what goes on in the minds of femmes when they are enmeshed between their butch's thighs and having Their way with them? What kinds of thoughts run around in your mind?
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BUMP ! just because.
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Y'all made my ovaries hurt.
Good lord.
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Good lord.
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LMAO! So funny...and true !

I`ll come back to this thread when I`m a little braver.......

But I`m so happy to read such honest and open posts and and such rightly deserved respect for whatever our personal preferences are.

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