I was told one time that i wasn't a femme because the butch i was dating at the time didn't pak.
It was on another site, but it was a member of the LGBTQ community; sometimes i think we are worse to each other, than straight people are to us.
Martina asked how we respond...i didn't, maybe i should have...but what do you say to ignorance? I know who i am, and I'm good with it.