Here is how I think about titles labels etc. I look like a guy , I walk like a guy (so I'm told) I think like a guy, but I have a few female body parts. I guess I fit into the butch label or trans maybe but really no title fits me. No label is correct, I'm just me , I was born this way . I have always been like this if other people like to put me in a catagory or assign me a label it makes no difference to me. Some people like things to be clear cut, so they can try to see where they fit in and how they relate to everything in there world. Its just not that important to me. One time when my nephew was about 8 we were on our way to the lake and he said are you a guy or a girl? Very honest and just wanting to know . I said does it matter? He thought about for a second and said no I guess it doesn't. That's my spin on it. Does it matter?
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I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.
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