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Originally Posted by blush
This thread makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.
And here's why:
It feels like, once again, we femmes are being held accountable for the community (or lack of community) between butches and transmen. Even though we are repeatedly told we are not a part of male-id'ed/female id'ed butch or transmen communities(yanno, cuz we're femme. We couldn't possibly have an opinion on those communities). Yet now we are going to discuss our influences in these communities. After awhile, it starts to feel like a "gotcha!" It starts to feel like a trap.
So why am I here? Cause I like Super Femme and The Lady Snow. And I'm secretly hoping I'm wrong.
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It's not a trap..
It's a hard conversation, and as much as we don't like it..
We femme's do perpetuate what may or may not happen..
I don't think we aren't allowed opinions, so can I have some clarification on that?
It does happen...
I don't think we are super imposing all responsibilities on femme's alone.
Yes I gotta be honest we do have some influence
Can you please help me out to understand why you feel this may be a trap?
Please?