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Old 12-04-2009, 08:52 PM   #1
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Default What's the difference between Romantic and Sexy?

I thought this would be a fun little thread to start to see what others think the difference is between Romantic and Sexy.

Is there a difference?
Are they one in the same?
What about that fine line between the two?

Just curious as to what others opinions are about it.


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Old 12-04-2009, 09:00 PM   #2
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Main Entry: sexy
Pronunciation: \ˈsek-sē\
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): sex·i·er; sex·i·est
Date: 1925
1 : sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic
2 : generally attractive or interesting : appealing <a sexy stock>

Main Entry: Romance
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): ro·manced; ro·manc·ing
Date: 1655
intransitive verb
1 : to exaggerate or invent detail or incident
2 : to entertain romantic thoughts or ideas
transitive verb
1 : to try to influence or curry favor with especially by lavishing personal attention, gifts, or flattery
2 : to carry on a love affair with
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Oh, I'll bet you'll get a fun little thread out of this!!
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I could get into ALL kinds of wild fun and trouble here! But, I will not. (TOO SHY with my private stuff!)

The two are generally overlapping for me though! And you can have one, but not the other. Also, you can have BOTH, individually and separated. THAT IS FUN TOO!!!

I enjoy the BLEND. (However, just GOOD HOT SEXY is... quite "alright".)

OK, enough... (!) have FUN here!!

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Romantic ~ Heart

Sexy ~ Lower

Ms. Diva's hit the nail on the head for me...

Although, I can see when the two blend into each other--and I must say that I like it better that way

For instance: Dollin' up for a fancy dinner + conversation & flirting (which can be both sexy & romantic) = [insert your favorite naughty emoticon here]
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Old 12-05-2009, 11:58 AM   #6
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Romantic-- Your blood and skin underneath my nails

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Romantic - You touch my heart.

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Romantic: getting a text message from hym saying that hy wants to make love to me

Sexy: hym telling me how he wants to do it


Romantic: holding hands in public, walking on the beach together, snuggles on the sofa watching football or hockey

Sexy: having hym tell me I am sexy in sweats and a tee shirt

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Romance makes my heart skip a beat.

Sexy gets a totally different physical reaction.
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Romance, a play and a movie
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Romance is cutting flowers from my backyard and giving to a sweet femme.


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Romantic: candle light, perfume, cologne, soft gentle boat ride, massage, basket of flowers, a single bloom, poetry, being read to, bubble baths, home cooked meal, feeding one another, moon light stroll, a walk along the beach, blazing fire, blanket on the ground, picnic basket with special goodies, soft music, horse back ride,

Sexy - erotic movement, lace, leather, the smell of leather, attitude, Intelligence, deep connecting voice, erotice movement, confidence, eye contact in any position,
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Erotic - In my experience erotic does not require romantic. It can but not necessarily. Passion, desire, thirst, need.
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An article,body movement,thought or look that creates inner desire to want more. By accident or on purpose.

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An intentional act that is intended to make the other person feel personally attended to and feel special, on many levels.
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romantic she is there when you wake up - sex is you look for underwear and say fuckit and get a cab
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