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Lesbian/Femme 34 17.00%
Queer/Femme 27 13.50%
Femme 9 4.50%
Butch/Lesbian/Woman 19 9.50%
Queer/Butch (female-ID) 3 1.50%
Queer/Butch (male-ID) 4 2.00%
Butch 14 7.00%
FTM/Transguy 21 10.50%
Androgenous 0 0%
Other/no ID 7 3.50%
MTF/Transwoman 0 0%
Queer 6 3.00%
Stone Femme Queer 9 4.50%
Stone Femme Lesbian 4 2.00%
Stone Femme 4 2.00%
Stone Butch 8 4.00%
Stone Butch Lesbian 0 0%
Stone Butch Queer 2 1.00%
Queer Girl (Woman) 6 3.00%
Queer Boy/Boi (Man) 0 0%
Transgendered Male Id'd Butch Human 6 3.00%
Bi-Gender 2 1.00%
Intersexed 1 0.50%
genderqueer 7 3.50%
Transgender Stone Butch 7 3.50%
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Old 06-01-2010, 02:58 PM   #1
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I don't know if I'll get all the variations (let me know if I missed something and I'll try to add it) but I'm curious as to the breakdown of gender/sex IDs. (pure curiosity sake).

If I missed something, let me know.
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Why do the only variations of 'queer' come with another stipulation? (Femme/queer, queer/butch, etc.)

I don't identify as queer femme but there is no way to identify as queer without the second implication.
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That's why I said let me know if I missed any. I'll add queer by itself.
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I think of my gender as butch woman and lesbian as part of my sexuality. I could be covered under the just Butch category though.
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I think of my gender as butch woman and lesbian as part of my sexuality. I could be covered under the just Butch category though.
Ok.

Do you think I should reverse the category to be butch/lesbian then?

I put butch as separate for those that do not lay claim to queer or lesbian but just butch.
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Do you think I should reverse the category to be butch/lesbian then?

I put butch as separate for those that do not lay claim to queer or lesbian but just butch.
Well some people do think of lesbian as part of their identity. Not to criticize, it is just a bit curious that woman and man is not in any of the gender categories.
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I couldn't respond to your poll Linus because like Bull Dog, I consider myself a butch woman.

Can you clarify what just Butch is?
You have variations with the other ID's, just not that one.
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Well some people do think of lesbian as part of their identity. Not to criticize, it is just a bit curious that woman and man is not in any of the gender categories.
I never thought to include them. I certainly can.
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Can you clarify what just Butch is?
You have variations with the other ID's, just not that one.
I've modified the Lesbian/Butch option to read Butch/Lesbian/Woman. Does that help?
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And what about 'stone'?
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Wow...just goes to show the incredible variety of ID's co-existing on this site...

I'm getting the feeling this is going to be a long list...and that's a good thing. Linus!!

Lesbian femme here
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Wow...just goes to show the incredible variety of ID's co-existing on this site...

I'm getting the feeling this is going to be a long list...and that's a good thing. Linus!!

Lesbian femme here
I can only go as far as 20 options so..
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I can only go as far as 20 options so..
So how creative are you at combining categories?
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Hee, hee I am a stone butch too, lol. I think I need more than one vote! Good job Linus, but you might run outta room.
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Hee, hee I am a stone butch too, lol. I think I need more than one vote! Good job Linus, but you might run outta room.
Just Stone Butch or Stone Butch Lesbian?
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I may have to but the problem is that if I combine them, it may cause some people to not respond because they don't ID as such.
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Well you might want to add Stone Butch. If I have one vote it would go to Butch Woman Lesbian. Some stone butches are lesbians, some aren't.
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