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Old 01-31-2011, 10:49 AM   #1
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My brother passed away this morning/late last night. He was older than I am, but only 66. He'd had cirrhosis of the liver for many years, plus a number of strokes, so this wasn't a huge surprise, despite still being a shock, you know? I know his quality of life sucked for over a year, but still...
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Old 01-31-2011, 10:51 AM   #2
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very sorry for your loss. Healing takes time, and what a blessing it is when we finally get there.
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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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Unhappy guihong~

I was very sorry to read of the loss of your brother.

I hope you have lovely memories of times the two of you spent together, that you can hang onto very tightly while you process your loss.

The loss of a sibling is very hard to wade through.

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I am so very sorry for you loss. May you find comfort & peace during this difficult time.
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Lighted candles for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Its never easy to lose family and friends.....its such a permanent loss and it weighs heavy. May you find comfort during this difficult time. May your brother be surrounded by love and light.
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I'm very sorry for the loss.

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Oh, guihong, I am so very sorry for your loss. I just lost my uncle a little over a week ago so I know the grief you are feeling. Surround yourself with loved ones and keep busy the best you can, all the while making sure to take care of yourself, okay? Many hugs coming your way. {{{{{guihong}}}}}
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Just know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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We are sorry to hear of your loss.
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My condolences to you and your family, I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. May you always know he is still with you within.
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My sincere condolances to you and your family. Although loss is part of living, it is not easy much of the time.
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Please just know that you are thought of with prayers of strength and peace for you and all of your family...

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I am so sorry for your loss. Its always a shock to lose a family member ....they are so much a part of youself...
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my brother suddenly in November. Take your time and be good to yourself as you walk through this grief. One day at a time....
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