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I just spoke with JoSchmooze and the guy said folks have been asking about me. I am doing ok. Healing and learning to live life a different way. I came back to find sweet messages left for me. Thank you all. The surgery was a success. I had more difficulty about a month ago and needed more testing. Got rather ill but am swinging back around again. My meds were playing havoc with me, I guess. I have lost a significant amount of weight and my skin hangs on me..a good thing!!
I have financial stability now. SSDI did kick in and I was able to pay back bills and get repairs done and now have a monthly income that allows me to live like a human being should. Not fancy but certainly comfortable enough that I dont go without. Still no cable tho! LOL. I have raised beds that a friend made for me and thats how I am gardening this year. Traded my old car in for a geo tracker that is great on gas and is fun to drive. I just spent two weeks traveling with my niece and her two little boys. Am still keeping company with my submissive and have a second sub I am getting to know. A MTF also. I have a chihuahua now but am waiting to adopt another newfoundland..or two. Am waiting to see what I can afford financially. Once life settles down with the medical bills and drugs, I will see if I can do a horse too. A friend is letting me play with her horse for the time being, so that has helped alot. I get to see the mare once a week. I even rode once! thank you for keeping me in your thoughts. I have missed you...
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07-09-2011, 03:09 PM
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Thank you for your post. We have missed you and wondered about you. I used to have your phone number but it has got lost in the shuffle of life. It is great you are doing so good. I had high hopes and prayers sent that you were. Hugs you tight and don't be a stranger!!!!! xoxoxo belle
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07-09-2011, 04:02 PM
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I am so glad to see you are doing well. Take life slowly one day at a time and enjoy the ride along the way! Sounds like things are slowly working out for you in all aspects of your life. Congrats! I was cleaning out my spare room the other day and found some seeds and thought of you lol. Glad you are still gardening. Hugs.. keep us posted on how you are doing!! Love ya! To the first person to welcome me on BFD you were soooo so sweet... Becca...
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07-09-2011, 08:17 PM
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WELCOME BACK!!!!!!!
and I am so jealous that you have a horse friend!
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07-09-2011, 08:21 PM
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Ms and i were wondering how you are doing. Glad for the update!!! hope your healing continues to get better and better.
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07-09-2011, 09:01 PM
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thank you for the lovely welcoming back posts. It is so nice to feel "part of". I am content at Rose Cottage. I just painted my front porch and put up pretty pots on the steps. I found a great deal at an estate sale...4 french provincial dressers for $60 total so now my spare bedroom is complete. Little things like that mean so much.
I can eat solid food now but my quantities are limited. I can eat a half a regular hamburger from McDonalds and a few fries. I cant drink while I eat or I get discomfort. Sugar doesnt affect me like people said it would. I can still indulge in some candies, etc, and it doesnt make me sick but eating isnt what it use to be for me. Its not a feeding frenzy nor a way to drown my feelings. eating is simply eating. If it taste good I eat it and when I am full, I quit. It is so successful my sister is even going in for one of these operations, which she vowed she would never do. It was discovered that some of my meds were interacting badly and that it affected not just my memory but my personality as well. I am off those meds and feel so much less agitated about life. But then I also think its part and parcel of the whole life changes I have had over the past few months. well, I am exhausted. I had a long day with family, after getting home from a two week vacation so I need to say goodnite. Talk to you all again later... 
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07-09-2011, 10:41 PM
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So glad to hear you are doing well,you have been missed while you were gone.Yes,meds can play havoc with each other and the one takeing them I am glad they figured it out.Take care and contenue liveing life to the fullest..a horse friend...cool.How is the cat that adopted you before you went to the hospitial? Rock |
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07-09-2011, 11:03 PM
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Hi Rocky..that kitty is doing fine. I had him neutered but he is an outdoor kitty now. He was spraying all over my house and attacked my bird. LOL. Thats what kitties do! He has a friend now, a little Tom and I have to catch him next and take him in to be neutered. I am going to go broke on cats....
yes my horse friend is sharing her mare with me... Its nice to smell like a horse again
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07-10-2011, 02:25 PM
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who walked away? I was ...mmmm.....working things out.....
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Welcome back, Softness!
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