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			Is anyone else a social dancer? Like partner dancing?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I am getting back into swing dancing lately and I have picked up the blues dancing. Anyone else?  | 
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			Great thread idea! Any suggestions for good way to learn - its difficult for Blu and I to get to classes? Any good videos? Examples to learn by? Enquiring minds want to know! ADG 
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			I love dancing!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I sososo want to take classes.  I can two step and waltz, but would like to learn to tango and chacha and foxtrot etc. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			and I need a partner! 
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			I love partner dancing, I try to go out dancing as much as possible. It had been a few months since I had last gone, but I got some dance time this past weekend, salsa, and other tropical stuff.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I have danced Tango a few times but I am far from getting it right. I am considering classes after the holidays. I LOVE to dance!  | 
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			I used to be a hella two-stepper but have lost that. I would love to get back into it and other partner dancing. I really enjoy the synergy of it. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	And I have to say that watching Artdeco and her partner, Blu, dance reminds me of what dancing should look like.  | 
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			I love partner dancing as well. Good luck with the lessons. I am very jealous. lol 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Where do I sign?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() I can slow dance (who can't!!), and I do a mean salsa. But I will need lessons in all the others...I always wanted to learn how to dance Tango - it is my passion! 
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			I took Tango lessons once and loved it!!!  But I will readily admit that I am extremely not graceful and should not dance unless there is a pole, chair and/or lap nearby-lol. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			I love that queer partner dancing has a large following in the Bay Area of CA. Great fun, great people.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I love to ballroom and partner dance and participate with local queer dances. I've spent the last few years learning and enjoy west coast swing, waltz, foxtrot, salsa, etc to list a few. I'm about to begin taking a second tango class. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Mannn I wish we had that here!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I wonder if there are any dvds you can learn ballrm dancing .  Gonna have to search that out.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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