Well, hello.

carter · 03-01-2011, 04:02 PM

Hello folks. I'm carter. I'm a friend of June's. I've been lurking here for a rather absurdly long time, and decided to come say hello, finally, now.

So, about me. I am a sort of continuous improvement project. Sharply focused on becoming kinder, less judgmental, more patient, less moody, more responsible, less selfish.

You know, the easy stuff.

The last 2+ years especially have been all about addressing all the ways in which who I am and how I live do not match the person I want to be and the life I want. That is, about matching the outside me to the inside me, if that makes sense.

Also, about figuring out how to live with the irreconcilable contradictions we humans are made of.

All of which, in one way or another, leads me here. Hi there.

Gayla · 03-01-2011, 04:04 PM

Hi carter! Welcome to the Planet.

bigbutchmistie · 03-01-2011, 04:05 PM

Hello and welcome

weatherboi · 03-01-2011, 04:07 PM

welcome!!!
enjoy this space...it is great!!!

Diva · 03-01-2011, 04:07 PM

Hi Carter.........welcome Home! Enjoy Yourself.....it's a great place!

rlin · 03-01-2011, 04:08 PM

!!

princessbelle · 03-01-2011, 04:09 PM

Sounds like you are at the right place for sure!!!!!!!

The_Lady_Snow · 03-01-2011, 04:10 PM

Hi carter!! Welcome.....

proximitywithoutintimacy · 03-01-2011, 04:13 PM

Welcome

Guy · 03-01-2011, 04:42 PM

Welcome, Carter!

Medusa · 03-01-2011, 04:47 PM

Welcome, welcome!

And yes June, you'll receive a lovely "referal fee" in the form of a book of dirty porn written by your most favoooooorrriittte writer

Chancie · 03-01-2011, 04:47 PM

Here's a present, since you're a friend of June'y's.

Dreamer · 03-01-2011, 04:52 PM

Welcome to the Planet Carter, enjoy.

lipstixgal · 03-01-2011, 04:53 PM

Hello and welcome to the planet!!

DomnNC · 03-01-2011, 06:42 PM

Welcome to the Planet carter, lots of awesome folks around, enjoy!

Strappie · 03-01-2011, 06:58 PM

Hey Carter,

Welcome to the Planet.. good luck finding "you" I'm sure you will find yourself soon.. but remember.. we continue to look to better ourselves (some of us) every day!!

Happy Searching!!

JAGG · 03-01-2011, 07:58 PM

Welcome to the planet hope you make many friends here.

Pixie · 03-01-2011, 08:11 PM

Hiya! Welcome! Glad you came out of lurking and said hi!

ravfem · 03-01-2011, 08:13 PM

enjoy!

TickledPink · 03-01-2011, 08:46 PM

Oh, and here June:

03-01-2011, 04:02 PM	#1
carter Junior Member How Do You Identify?: dorkasaurus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Northeast U.S. Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 33 Thanked 15 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0	Well, hello. Hello folks. I'm carter. I'm a friend of June's. I've been lurking here for a rather absurdly long time, and decided to come say hello, finally, now. So, about me. I am a sort of continuous improvement project. Sharply focused on becoming kinder, less judgmental, more patient, less moody, more responsible, less selfish. You know, the easy stuff. The last 2+ years especially have been all about addressing all the ways in which who I am and how I live do not match the person I want to be and the life I want. That is, about matching the outside me to the inside me, if that makes sense. Also, about figuring out how to live with the irreconcilable contradictions we humans are made of. All of which, in one way or another, leads me here. Hi there.

03-01-2011, 04:09 PM	#7
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,499 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Sounds like you are at the right place for sure!!!!!!! __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

03-01-2011, 04:10 PM	#8
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,098 Times in 15,676 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Hi carter!! Welcome..... __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

03-01-2011, 04:47 PM	#11
Medusa Mentally Delicious How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: Mme. Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 10,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,995 Thanked 42,721 Times in 7,832 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Welcome, welcome! And yes June, you'll receive a lovely "referal fee" in the form of a book of dirty porn written by your most favoooooorrriittte writer __________________ . . . Buy ButchFemmePlanet Merch Here: https://teespring.com/stores/butchfemmeplanetcom-merch

03-01-2011, 04:52 PM	#13
Dreamer Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: Dreams do come true... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Home with my beautiful wife Posts: 1,143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,642 Thanked 4,234 Times in 950 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Welcome to the Planet Carter, enjoy. __________________ "Let your mind start a journey through a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be...Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you'll live as you have never lived before" ~Erich~

03-01-2011, 04:04 PM	#2
Gayla Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kinky Butch Top Preferred Pronoun?: I'm not picky Relationship Status: She makes me dance like a fool and forget how to breathe. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SF CA Posts: 3,229 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 877 Thanked 7,077 Times in 1,966 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hi carter! Welcome to the Planet.

03-01-2011, 04:05 PM	#3
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Hello and welcome

03-01-2011, 04:07 PM	#4
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,549 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	welcome!!! enjoy this space...it is great!!!

03-01-2011, 04:07 PM	#5
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,174 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	*Hi Carter.........welcome Home! Enjoy Yourself.....it's a great place!*

03-01-2011, 04:08 PM	#6
rlin Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: nomad Posts: 712 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,450 Thanked 1,189 Times in 451 Posts Rep Power: 1004849	!!

03-01-2011, 04:13 PM	#9
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	Welcome

03-01-2011, 04:42 PM	#10
Guy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 1,858 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,258 Thanked 2,574 Times in 889 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Welcome, Carter!

03-01-2011, 04:47 PM	#12
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,757 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,419 Thanked 14,517 Times in 2,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Here's a present, since you're a friend of June'y's.

03-01-2011, 04:53 PM	#14
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Hello and welcome to the planet!! __________________ Gail

03-01-2011, 06:42 PM	#15
DomnNC Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Widow Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Permanently Banned 11/15/2011 Posts: 1,223 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,618 Thanked 2,582 Times in 837 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome to the Planet carter, lots of awesome folks around, enjoy!

03-01-2011, 06:58 PM	#16
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,946 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Hey Carter, Welcome to the Planet.. good luck finding "you" I'm sure you will find yourself soon.. but remember.. we continue to look to better ourselves (some of us) every day!! Happy Searching!!

03-01-2011, 07:58 PM	#17
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,534 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	hi Welcome to the planet hope you make many friends here. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.

03-01-2011, 08:11 PM	#18
Pixie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Equal Opportunity Friend Preferred Pronoun?: Girl Relationship Status: in service Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sacramento! Posts: 2,868 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,691 Thanked 4,103 Times in 1,332 Posts Rep Power: 15274784	Hiya! Welcome! Glad you came out of lurking and said hi! __________________ Unexplored glimmering in the rough How does a diamond hide? -Pixie-

03-01-2011, 08:13 PM	#19
ravfem Senior Member How Do You Identify?: i'm a girl Relationship Status: negative Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,239 Thanked 3,126 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 1969286	enjoy! __________________

03-01-2011, 08:46 PM	#20
TickledPink Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Girly Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Miss Pink Relationship Status: Shacked UP Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Holt-Mason Chateau Decherd/I'm a NashVegas Girl! Posts: 1,041 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 586 Thanked 1,997 Times in 606 Posts Rep Power: 9218476	Oh, and here June: