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			Where's a thread we can post in when we've got a date coming up and we're excited about it? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	So... I've got a date next week and I'm excited about it. She's a professional baker, which means two things to me: 1) She kneads things for a living. :wink: 2) She's good in the kitchen. You know what they say... lol Can you tell I'm a more than a little sexually frustrated? Not that I plan to get lucky or anything. We are planning to meet for coffee, late afternoon. I told her I'd bring my guitar since we both play, and encouraged her to bring hers so we can jam a little and see how we fit musically. She seemed excited about that. I'll be happy if a) she's not crazy (yes that happened on a first date recently - ugh), and b) we have enough in common for Date #2. Wish me luck.  
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			Come on people... I can't be the only one here who's excited about an upcoming date. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			While I prefer to spend my evenings posting corny jokes, I am very excited for you, Anaisninja.  As you anticipate your date with the baker next week may I direct you to a wonderful little erotic story called "Sweet Thing" by Joy Parks.  The featured character is a handsome butch baker.  You can find this story in most Butch/Femme erotica anthologies.  I think it may be just the thing to whet your appetite.  Have fun!  xo
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Unfortunately, I'm one of those people that hates dating. So I don't get excited about them. I get stressed. I'd rather just relax and hang out and maybe something happens. I get excited about dates *later* .... After we have slept together and after I know she likes me for certain. Before that I just stress out about how I look (I don't have any clothes left that are really nice, as I haven't bought any in 2.5 years and they are to worn now) and how I can save up money to go out. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	If I do, at some point, get excited about hanging out with someone I promise I will post here  
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			BB and I have a date for tomorrow night.  We are going to see a movie in the village at the Angelika theater called "Fading Gigolo."  Then we are going to a cheap, much loved, frequented-by-NYU-students Japanese restaurant called Dojo's.  I am going to have the soy burger dinner.  BB will have the Hijiki tofu dinner.  A discussion of the movie we have just seen will ensue.  I'm totally excited about my date fer real!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I have  few hot dates planned for next weekend at IMsL. I'm planning my outfits and getting a little fluttery.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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