The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[Jude]

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

I can toltally relate to relapsing and being a caretaker
I was and did both recently.,....until brother;s felt dad and I would be better off w/ him in a retirement home...and me out here in the world...DO I miss being w/ him...YES.....could I handle it....now....no....need to get well and be happy....hope that doesn't sound selfish.....

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Naturlover,
Doesn't sound the slightest bit selfish! Get over wondering if it's selfish to want to be well and happy and live your life. Change is always a little scary, isn't it!