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10-08-2012, 11:04 AM
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If Today Was Your Last Day?
So I hope I put this in the right section, I didnt know if it belonged here or the red zone.
Anyhow I've been doing a lot of thinking lately,than I was listening to music and Nicklebacks "If Today Was Your Last Day" Started playing... Which leaves me to think If today was your last day What would you do? We all have some idea of what we would want our last day to entail. This is mainly just to get us to thinking, I think a lot of people(not just here) take life in general for granted. So here it goes You have 24 hours what would you do with it? |
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10-08-2012, 11:26 AM
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Since the late 80s when I lost my first gf I have tried to make sure that those I love know it. I just hot out of the hospital a little over 2 weeks ago where I was extremely sick and from what I hear could have met my maker.
I want to spend every moment I can with the woman I love creating memories that she will cherish and know that no matter how difficult life is that I love her and will till the end of time not just my time. I would make sure that I eat anything and everything I haven't been able to enjoy the last cpl of yrs cuz of diabetes. I would love to just hold my baby girl and laugh and cry with her for she would make the last day the one heaven would have to measure up tooo . |
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10-08-2012, 01:00 PM
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If this were my last day, I would sort of be relieved. I would just sit quietly and look out the window and think.
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What an amazing spirit you are darlin. *And...I'm glad it is not your last day. If it were mine... I would do as many of my patients have done...be surrounded by family and friends that truly love me. Not the ones that pretend to. The ones that really, deeply do. That's how i want my ship to go out of sight from the shoreline on this side and to transition to the other side where others who love me will greet me on the other shoreline. I'm not scared at all. I believe, with all of my heart, there is a wonderful, amazing place to travel to, some day.
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I would go for a long walk by myself. I'd think about all the people I love and who love me back and smile. I'd find a quiet place to sit, pull my scarf up around my ears and drink tea from a flask while soaking in the vibrant colours and autumn scents.
I would just be.
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10-08-2012, 04:35 PM
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i'd go home
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If today was my last day...
I'd want to hug Stoney for the longest time. Because forever home is how it feels in hys arms. And that is all I can bring myself to say about that. I'd want to talk. I'd want to say the inane stuff I've learned from life. To remember the joys and stupid stuff that tripped me up. And Share a meal with friends. I'd want to hear a strangers wish or dream. To take something new with me. Maybe it would help them. |
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10-08-2012, 05:43 PM
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If today was my last day;
I would use every minute of it as wisely as I possibly could. I would get out my camcorder and make a video for my son reminding him how much I love him and that I hope he goes far in life with the love and teachings I have him in his 5 short years. I would talk to family and make sure my final wishes are known and respected. Also let the organ donation team know it's almost time. I would also have a final celebration meal with my closest family and friends to reminisce the good times, ask forgiveness for things I may need to ask for and pray my final moments are peaceful and sweet.
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10-08-2012, 05:59 PM
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Having been in the position to say good bye to both my parents one (me) didn't say much, go into the light and I will take care of him, I love you. My father passed without a word as he went peacefully in his sleep.
I've gone through 2 major surgeries and all I could say to her was I love you, and that is all one can really say, and mean it. The rest is in the Universes' hands.
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10-08-2012, 07:32 PM
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great discussion, CharmingButch25.
they say it's the journey. not the first or the last. so lets see, ... i would lip synch for my life! LOL i don't want to go! the only time i would beg lol. seriously, i don't want to know it's my last day. i want to give and love and live. whatever i'm doing when it's time to go, ... i want to be grateful and smile. |
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10-08-2012, 09:16 PM
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I would invite my friends over for prayer, Jack and Cokes, martinis, jacuzzi and endless DVDs of True Blood, Supernatural and Sons of Anarchy and of course my pot roast!!!!
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10-08-2012, 09:33 PM
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Personal Reminder
...This reminds me of a quote I had in my locker throughout Jr & Sr High School.
"IF you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make...Who would you call and What would you say? AND WHY are you waiting?!?" Back then it was a daily reminder to be a good person and always tell people positive things. I have had my faults through the years in making the best decisions. But as my dad says, as long as I am being the best ME I can be, it is worth all the trials that make us stronger. The point is hardly anyone is ever told when that last day or moment is going to be. So I live life knowing it could be today. It doesn't change who I am or what I do. It is a part of life. That one thing that you can be sure Everyone goes through... So I don't ask what if...I would ask all of you why not now. Especially when a lot of people are talking about family. Call them! I get that you may not be able to see them because of jobs or distance, but I Know (cause she tells me) that my mom loves to hear my voice. We txt almost every day, but sometimes it's just nice to Hear the other person. Live today with the promise of a new beginning and the knowledge of a life well done. No worries, no fears, just the good stuff. Do what you can every day...not just what if days... *tip hat*
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There comes a time when you can't pick up the phone any longer....and it sucks. I spoke to my mom several times a week for my entire adult life and, troubled as our relationship was, I miss being able to do that now. I can't tell you how many times I've picked up the phone to tell her about something funny, or something Rooster has accomplished, or just to chat. Call them. Seriously.
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I would write letters to all the important people in my life and then gather them together so I could give them their letter in person.
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24 hours. When you think about it, that seems so short. It really is though, because life is passing us by. I mean, just yesterday, I was a senior in high school... the day before that? Making painted bread in kindergarten.
If I knew I had 24 hours left to live, I'd make sure I said goodbye to those who mean the most. Those who actually would give a damn, and want that final closure. I'd make sure my pets were taken care of, my bills settled, and things written out. I'd forgive those people who need to be forgiven. Then? I'd head out to a place I find the most peace at. I'd take a good book, a nice bottle of wine, and loose myself in the peace and tranquility of the final moments. I'd make peace with myself and simply be done.
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The title reminds me of a song by Nickelback. But, anyway, if it were my last day I would have all my friends and I spend the whole day with me and do all the things we always do and hang out at our usual spots, that way saying goodbye wouldn't be so hard to do. And I would take care of all the things that needed to be done, and just enjoy every moment until my last moment comes and it's time for me to leave here.
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10-09-2012, 04:21 PM
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I would love on my babies all day long...and maybe have some crab legs.
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If I had just one day left, I would take way too many pictures so my child would never forget me
I would say my goodbyes, id write letters,id make videos I would make sure the woman I care so deeply for knows that I care I would spend my last day surounded by what makes me happy , no tears just laughter. The main thing I would focus on is not letting the child forget me, i would write her my lessons on life,and what I feel is important,and make sure that she knows money isnt everything and it definatly cant buy your health or happiness.Id make sure she knows she is worth something,and not to dare let anyone bully Id explain to her in my letter about falling in love and how amazing it feels when you connect with someone in that way Id explain to her that sometimes in life you have to go thru a lot of bad stuff for the good to come of it. Id write a letter to my mom explaining to her exactly what she means to me, and how I am the person I am today because she was the best mom anyone could ever want, even if she fought her own demons Most importantly I would just share love and laughter and enjoy my last hours with the most important people in my life. |
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