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12-19-2014, 09:10 PM
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How do you feel about "PDA"?
I go back and forth on this question. How much is too much, where and at what point in a relationship?
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12-19-2014, 09:30 PM
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I'm all for public displays of affection. Meaning that I like to hold hands while walking or sitting together... have her arm in mine... my arm around her or my hand on the small of her back. I don't mind a kiss here and there.
I like to touch and be touched but in saying that, I probably am not going to be found making out with someone in public. I always ask the person I'm with how they feel about PDA as well because I don't want to make the other person uncomfortable.
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12-19-2014, 10:43 PM
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Depends where I am, really (what country, what part).
Generally I enjoy holding hands, or my hand through their arm. Head on their shoulder on the bus or train. Hand on lap at the pub. Public style kisses, unless it's late night somewhere, after a few drinks, and it's a queer to club, rave or an event or a dark doorway. I'm not going to play tonsil hockey on the train at 7pm. But I have made out pretty heavily after midnight in the pub at a table during a queer event. Maybe even did kissing rounds at the table.... Gotten rather frisky at a pride picnic before when some young butch wanted to try kissing the girls that were in our circle... We passed her around for a proper snog each. Generally, I'm pretty reserved unless the special occasion calls for a bit of fun. |
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12-19-2014, 11:12 PM
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I love it. Just sayin!! :-D
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12-20-2014, 04:09 AM
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I'm all for it! Walking hand and hand or my arm around her waist or while driving I lay my hand on her thigh and her touching me also and telling each other " I love you's " in public also and sharing food off each other plates but I'm not into showing sexually how I deeply feel about my partner in public that should be at home you know that's private! But anything else I'm all for!
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12-20-2014, 09:07 AM
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I am pretty much in agreement with what others have posted. Holding hands, quick pecks on the cheek or forehead, maybe a little back rub here and there. Where I live, this is mostly limited to gay bars and gay-friendly events in order to avoid rude comments or stares.
I don't care to watch someone straddling their partner and sucking face in public, so you won't find me doing it either. Get a room for all of that. Lol. |
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05-16-2015, 10:13 PM
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It makes me very proud of who i'm with, but would avoid over doing it. "Discrete" PDA is fun too, just saying.
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05-16-2015, 10:17 PM
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I like to hold hands . but my ex gf was afraid to because her fear of retaliation or harassment from the bible thumpers and rednecks here.so i respected her wishes. i seriously doubt anything would happen here if we had...but then again i never EVER see lesbian or gay men holding hands here unless its gay pride downtown or memorial day at the beach.. and ive lived here my whole life not even once have i seen pda in public unless it was a staight couple. but yeah...id hold hands , hug or whatever not makeout or anything
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I don't think there's anything wrong with appropriate PDA. I'm not into getting all over someone ......that's just too much for me and I don't like seeing it either........from any couple. Get a Room for that. LOL
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I don't give a flying fig what people think if i hold my wife's hand or we share a kiss, but.....i am mindful that not every situation is safe for us.
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05-17-2015, 04:13 AM
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I like PDAs and I especially like seeing it with others--young or old, teasing or sincere, discreet or not.
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I like to indulge in a bit of PDA and to see it from others. Hand holding, arms draped over or around, reaching out, flirting, kissing... I am not up for participating in a public game of tonsil hockey, undressing (not to be confused with public nudity. If you want to get naked on the beach or whatever, remove your own clothing) or heavy petting.
There's a time and a place for sexy time IMO. Even if you're into sharing the experience with many other people, it should still be 'private'.
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I love PDA,anywhere and anytime,fuck who is watching.My gf does not.Like someone said here,always a lady in public.She is so serious about it that if I try to kiss her on the lips she will give me that look,the one that tells me I won't get any when we go home.She will let me hold her hand in public or walk arm and arm together but I gave up trying to kiss her or drag her into a dark corner to make out.*sigh*
I will hold your hand,hug,kiss,squeeze every inch of your body,play with your hair,undress you,whisper things in your ear,physically pick you up and..umm,yes it's worth waiting to get her home. 
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09-19-2015, 07:28 PM
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I like it, anywhere, anything
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I like it very much. And, I like to see others engaging in acts of love and happiness and spontaneous joy that results in kissing and hugging and moments of unexpected everyday magic. I need more PDA in my life.
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If it looks like you need to get a room, enough said!
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I think people should make out wherever they feel like it. If I'm feel bothered by it, I'll look away.
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Simply put, I like to watch.....
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