Valentines day help?

Brewcityboi · 02-03-2011, 10:25 PM

it's been 5 years since i've been in love. Its also the first time in 5 years since i've had a valentine. The girl im in love with now is a super fem. I've never dated a fem for more then maybe a month and i was never in a relationship with them. What do fems usually like? Does anyone have any ideas to give her a v-day she'll never forget? Can anyone help a clueless boi?

betenoire · 02-03-2011, 10:28 PM

Well, since every Femme is different I can't really answer that question.

But if you were buying me a gift I'd say go with pearls.

The_Lady_Snow · 02-03-2011, 10:30 PM

Does she have any tools?

How about a tool box, with a gift certificate for a Spa?

Brewcityboi · 02-03-2011, 10:52 PM

she loves shoes and victorias secret (there is a god!). its too early in the relationship for pearls and im a broke college student.

thats what i have to work with lol

betenoire · 02-03-2011, 10:56 PM

if it's fairly early in the relationship do not buy her lingerie. That's really inappropriate.

Surely she has actual interests? Hobbies? Likes and dislikes?

moxie · 02-03-2011, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Brewcityboi

she loves shoes and victorias secret (there is a god!). its too early in the relationship for pearls and im a broke college student.

thats what i have to work with lol

You could cook for her. And/or give her a gift that doesn't have to be extravagant, but shows that you pay attention to what she says.

Brewcityboi · 02-03-2011, 11:05 PM

shes crazy obsessed with opera. maybe i could do something like that. the cooking thing is a great idea. :O i could make her a big giant cookie that says i love you, or is that too cheesy?

02-03-2011, 10:25 PM	#1
Brewcityboi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans/queer/lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: He, she, whatever. Who cares? Just don't be mean. Relationship Status: Bitten by the love bug. :) Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: milwaukee wi Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 72 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 57541	Valentines day help? it's been 5 years since i've been in love. Its also the first time in 5 years since i've had a valentine. The girl im in love with now is a super fem. I've never dated a fem for more then maybe a month and i was never in a relationship with them. What do fems usually like? Does anyone have any ideas to give her a v-day she'll never forget? Can anyone help a clueless boi? __________________ "I am a witness to my resurrection" - Melissa Etheridge

02-03-2011, 10:28 PM	#2
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,742 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Well, since every Femme is different I can't really answer that question. But if you were buying me a gift I'd say go with pearls. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

02-03-2011, 10:30 PM	#3
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02-03-2011, 10:52 PM	#4
Brewcityboi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans/queer/lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: He, she, whatever. Who cares? Just don't be mean. Relationship Status: Bitten by the love bug. :) Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: milwaukee wi Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 72 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 57541	she loves shoes and victorias secret (there is a god!). its too early in the relationship for pearls and im a broke college student. thats what i have to work with lol __________________ "I am a witness to my resurrection" - Melissa Etheridge

02-03-2011, 10:56 PM	#5
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,742 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	if it's fairly early in the relationship do not buy her lingerie. That's really inappropriate. Surely she has actual interests? Hobbies? Likes and dislikes? __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

02-03-2011, 11:05 PM	#7
Brewcityboi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans/queer/lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: He, she, whatever. Who cares? Just don't be mean. Relationship Status: Bitten by the love bug. :) Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: milwaukee wi Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 72 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 57541	shes crazy obsessed with opera. maybe i could do something like that. the cooking thing is a great idea. :O i could make her a big giant cookie that says i love you, or is that too cheesy? __________________ "I am a witness to my resurrection" - Melissa Etheridge