new to bfp and newly 'out'

Sassy · 07-28-2011, 05:53 PM

Hi,
I happened on this website a few weeks back. I've been lurking and reading and finally decided I'd say hello.
I came out to my family more than a year ago as a longterm relationship was ending badly. I'm blessed in that my parents are about as open-minded as people come. A couple of hippy types they think love is love is love. So no real major issues there.
I met a wonderful woman who has been a great source of love, affection and healing for me. We moved in together ( please, no U-haul jokes

) very quickly and live in mostly a harmonious state. There is a generation gap, she's 14 years older than me. But I often feel out of sync with people my age (Who knew Fleetwood Mac wasn't hip anymore? LOL) so it hasn't been too large of an issue for us.
Anyway, I'm still finding pieces of "me" every day. I thought maybe if I found a place where people share opinions and experiences I might also find a little insight into how other people live and identify in this world.
So, thank you for reading my ramblings.
Peace,
-S

ruffryder · 07-28-2011, 05:55 PM

WELCOME TO BFP S! NICE TO MEET YOU! ENJOY YOUR TIME HERE. THERE ARE LOTS OF COOL, INTERESTING PEOPLE AND GREAT DISCUSSIONS!

julieisafemme · 07-28-2011, 05:59 PM

Hi Sassy. I am very glad you found this place. It is enormously helpful to read when you are sorting all this out. I was in your spot almost three years ago. Online communities have been so helpful to me. I hope it will be helpful for you as well.

princessbelle · 07-28-2011, 06:05 PM

Sassy, so good to have you here!!!!!!! You have a great story and i wish you the best of luck!!!!

Have loads of fun!!!

Julie · 07-28-2011, 06:16 PM

I Sassy and welcome to the Planet.

I know you will find like minded people here and get that sense of community you are longing for.

Julie

girl_dee · 07-28-2011, 06:20 PM

*waves*... Hi Sassy lol

07-28-2011, 05:53 PM	#1
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,929 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641163	new to bfp and newly 'out' Hi, I happened on this website a few weeks back. I've been lurking and reading and finally decided I'd say hello. I came out to my family more than a year ago as a longterm relationship was ending badly. I'm blessed in that my parents are about as open-minded as people come. A couple of hippy types they think love is love is love. So no real major issues there. I met a wonderful woman who has been a great source of love, affection and healing for me. We moved in together ( please, no U-haul jokes ) very quickly and live in mostly a harmonious state. There is a generation gap, she's 14 years older than me. But I often feel out of sync with people my age (Who knew Fleetwood Mac wasn't hip anymore? LOL) so it hasn't been too large of an issue for us. Anyway, I'm still finding pieces of "me" every day. I thought maybe if I found a place where people share opinions and experiences I might also find a little insight into how other people live and identify in this world. So, thank you for reading my ramblings. Peace, -S

07-28-2011, 06:05 PM	#4
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,499 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Sassy, so good to have you here!!!!!!! You have a great story and i wish you the best of luck!!!! Have loads of fun!!! __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

07-28-2011, 06:16 PM	#5
Julie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Angel * Femme * Lesbian * Girl * Woman * Slut * Bitch * Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: No longer a Virgin Bride to Dreamer ~ May 17th, 2014 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 4,674 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,676 Thanked 18,160 Times in 3,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I Sassy and welcome to the Planet. I know you will find like minded people here and get that sense of community you are longing for. Julie __________________ “Sometimes only one person is missing and the whole world seems depopulated.” ~ Alphonse de Lamartine - 1790-1869 http://i374.photobucket.com/albums/o...ps4d9fb6c0.jpg I Love You ~ I Love Us May 17, 2014

07-28-2011, 05:55 PM	#2
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,678 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	WELCOME TO BFP S! NICE TO MEET YOU! ENJOY YOUR TIME HERE. THERE ARE LOTS OF COOL, INTERESTING PEOPLE AND GREAT DISCUSSIONS!

07-28-2011, 05:59 PM	#3
julieisafemme Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married to Greyson Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In the present Posts: 828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,156 Thanked 3,434 Times in 660 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hi Sassy. I am very glad you found this place. It is enormously helpful to read when you are sorting all this out. I was in your spot almost three years ago. Online communities have been so helpful to me. I hope it will be helpful for you as well.

07-28-2011, 06:20 PM	#6
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,862 Times in 13,915 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	waves... Hi Sassy lol