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10-06-2011, 10:47 AM
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10-06-2011, 11:07 AM
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The princess in the castle. I was around 4.
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10-06-2011, 11:09 AM
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10-06-2011, 11:17 AM
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10-06-2011, 11:22 AM
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A couple of damsels in distress that messed with my mind, lol.
Haven't met the actual princess yet. 
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10-06-2011, 11:29 AM
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age 5..played house, and was always wanting to be the "daddi" with my friend..we actually DID some exploring....and in grade school..1st grade...I fell in love with B.W...loved her all through HS, too...we did spend nights with each other all through grade school, kissed and hugged is most of it..senior year, I taught her how to drive, using MY car...smiles..and we are still friends to this day..when I told her our senior year...she was shocked...she is straight though....BUT I came out of the womb knowing I was a lesbian! and the search was on for my lover!
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10-06-2011, 12:42 PM
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I had a few slight crushes growing up but didn't know what to think about it. My first real one, I was 16 and her name was C******. She played short stop on our girls fast pitch softball team. OMG i was hooked, went to every practice/game and flirted my *ahem off. We had a short term thing because i was afraid people would figure it out. Actually she was my first, yeah, ....someone you just don't forget.
About 20 years later i saw her at a basketball game i was at with my boys and husband at the time. She was with her partner and we hugged. I could tell by the look in her eyes and the smile on her face she hadn't forgotten me. I will never forget her and that time in my life. Took me a little long to figure it out and do something about it. But, it's all part of the journey
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10-07-2011, 02:36 PM
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Damsels
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10-06-2011, 11:08 AM
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I was attracted to a few girls in high school, but, had a major crush on L****. We were in an after school club as well as in the same classes and neither of us knew that the other was gay or attracted.
Our friendship got stronger in the Autumn of 1984 and by the Spring of that year we were dating - we were together for 7 years.
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10-06-2011, 11:09 AM
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My gym teacher, 9th grade maybe.
.gif "Say What?") I Just didn't understand.
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10-06-2011, 11:12 AM
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12-01-2011, 08:21 AM
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I was in kindergarden, so 4 or 5. She was the 2nd grade teacher. She also lived about 9 houses from mine. Her dad was our mailman. Her name was Miss M*******. She looked like a young Susan Lucci. She was an identical twin, so am I. So she instantly loved me and my twin. But she loved all kids. She was kind and sweet and loving. She would freely hug and kiss her students. Which back in the 60's was a non issue but today I'm sure would be frowned upon. But the kids loved her and her kindness. I loved it when she kissed me but I would pretend I hated it. And I would run when I knew she was gonna kiss me. Because I realized quickly, that made her kiss you more when she caught you. Haha I was working it.
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12-01-2011, 08:26 AM
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ha,ha mine was also my second grade teacher!! omg she smelled so good. she started us journaling daily and i started writing love poems and stuff will the reassurance that no one but her would be reading them! soon she was so impressed with one of them that she shared it with my mother and the rest of the class!! still crushed on her but i stopped writing even to this day!
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12-01-2011, 10:50 AM
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My first crushes that I can remember were of the women I watched on the TV and Movie screen.
I grew up during the 60's and back then the "Movie Stars" were all white. I am sure this is why I do not have a greater variety of my first crushes. You see, my mother was a single mom and the TV and movies were our babysitters after all the chores were done. Every Sunday after mandatory church, (while mom was at home grabbing some alone time) we would go to the movies. Having said all that.............Here are my crushes during my elementary school years. Doris Day, Ann Margret and Audrey Hepburn.
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11-14-2015, 12:48 AM
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My first crush was T******, a girl I knew in 3rd grade. I fell head over heels for her--was even carrying her books and calling her my girlfriend and everything, saw nothing wrong with it, and then all hell broke loose.
 Long story short, I wound up having to change schools at the end of the year, it got really bad. I learned my lesson though and learned to keep my feelings to myself. I became a damn good actress after that. This was early 1980s in a notoriously homophobic town that I wound up having to run out of screaming once I finally became an adult. Shudder. I wouldn't go back to childhood for anything. Or my hometown either for that matter, even though it claims its "changed" (which I will never believe.) |
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12-07-2015, 11:21 PM
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KD Lang.... still makes me blush... lol
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12-08-2015, 12:21 AM
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Sweet remembrance
A dangerous revolutionary type butch: warm, embracing, a bit mysterious and edgy with the ability to make a woman feel really held energetically. Laughs, the day I realized how bad I was crushing on her I could have sworn the sun rose in a color I had never seen before. |
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12-08-2015, 01:57 AM
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Salma Hayek...in 97 she floated down a river in an innertube on Fools Rush In and I was hooked. She is my longest and most enduring woman crush. I wanted to look like her or fuck her - or both - from the moment I saw her.
  My second grandest woman crush is Monica Bellucci and I've adored her for nearly as long.  As for "real" people, I found numerous girls and women attractive from the time I was 12-13ish. None were long term things though until my late teens.
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01-24-2016, 08:02 PM
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My very first crush was when I was about 9 or 10 years old, and it was on my older sister's best friend. She was a tomboy and her name was Eunice. I used to follow her around and tried to copy everything she did and said. But then a couple years later I was crushing on a very femme woman whose brats I babysat for, my butch gym teacher, and an androgynous substitute teacher I had!
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01-24-2016, 08:41 PM
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