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Old 03-28-2012, 08:20 PM   #1
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I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

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PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):

Age:

Astrological Sign:

Birth Date: (day only - not year):

Location:

Height:

Eye Color:

Hair Color:

Piercings - how many & where:

Tattoos - how many & where:

Cat person or dog person:

Job:

What do you like about your job?:

What do you loathe about your job?:

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians:

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows:

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:

What is your pet peeve:

Favorite curse word:

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance?

If you could change a law which would it be?

Do you collect anything?


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?

Would you ever have plastic surgery?

Your idea of a good meal:

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Introvert or extrovert:

Dream profession:

What are your Hobbies:

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?

What do you get complemented on most often?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:

Do you generally feel understood?

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school?

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?

Issues that you feel most passionate about:

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):

Current relationship status:

What you look for in a partner:

The "type" of person you tend to attract:

Number of times you've been in love:

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?

Age when you had your first kiss:

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss:

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:

What trait in a woman turns you off?:



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?

Do you have any Fetishes:

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?:

Have you ever had a one-night stand?

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?


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PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Gayla

Age: 45

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 6

Location: California

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: light brown

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: 2; one on right calf & the other on right wrist

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: personal trainer

What do you like about your job?: working with the public

What do you loathe about your job?: the politics

Favorite books / authors: thomas harris

Favorite bands/musicians: The Beatles

Favorite movies: Do The Right Thing

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: Big Bang Theory, Southland, The Closer

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? none

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:

What is your pet peeve: being dissed

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: The New Yorker

A culture that intrigues you: buddhism

Do you like to dance? yes

If you could change a law which would it be? healthcare

Do you collect anything?


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? in my 30's, missed an opportunity to compete in bodybuilding...

Would you ever have plastic surgery? no

Your idea of a good meal: home cooked

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both

Dream profession: doing it

What are your Hobbies: working out

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: spiders

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? not sure

What do you get complemented on most often? i don't

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? short torso

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: buddhism

Do you generally feel understood? no

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school? insecure; low self-esteem... i was bullied a lot

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? no

Issues that you feel most passionate about: health and fitness

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my own


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): gender fluid

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: patience and understanding

The "type" of person you tend to attract: easy going

Number of times you've been in love: 2 i think

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? i dont remember too long ago

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? not sure

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: 8

Describe your best kiss: it was with a very hot butch, short relationship, but the best sex ever

Describe your last kiss: another hot butch.. short weekend...

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: her aura

What trait in a woman turns you off?: narcism



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: the short weekend butch

What are you self-conscious about naked? i'm not

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? dim

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: being present and in the moment and holding me tenderly yet firmly

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: check their phone, talk too much, quit in the middle of a plateau

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes: not sure

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: no

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? at times

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed
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Real Name (first only): Amy

Age: 41

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): July 31

Location: Palm Springs, CA

Height: 5'1"

Eye Color: Brown-ish hazel

Hair Color: brown with highlights

Piercings - how many & where: Just my ears, double-pierced

Tattoos - how many & where: I have 4 tattoos, one on each arm and two on my back.

Cat person or dog person: Both, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats

Job: Library Director

What do you like about your job?: A lot! I love working with people, I love serving the public, I love doing a bunch of different things every day, it's never boring.

What do you loathe about your job?: Overworked and underpaid!

Favorite books / authors: Lee Lynch, Alice Walker, Leslie Feinberg, S Bear Bergman, Emily Dickinson

Favorite bands/musicians: Way too many to list--I love all kinds of music except rap/hip-hop

Favorite movies: too many!

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: The Killing, Justified, Sons of Anarchy, Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, Southland

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Somewhere in the middle

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: happy dances when I'm excited about something (although sometimes people see me anyway)

What is your pet peeve: Teenage boys and young men with their asses hanging out of their droopy pants; misspellings on signs; when people say "lie-berry" instead of "library". I can't help that one!

Favorite curse word: Fuck. And all the other ones.

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? Love it

If you could change a law which would it be? DOMA. Same sex marriage should be legal at the federal level.

Do you collect anything? Anything to do with elephants

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't think I would.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No, unless there was some medical necessity.

Your idea of a good meal: Greek food at my favorite Greek restaurant. And any meal that included fried green tomatoes. Really.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I'd like to hear what my boss thinks of me, because I really have no clue.

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert about 85-90% of the time, introvert the rest of the time

Dream profession: Anything to do with helping animals

What are your Hobbies: Cooking, reading, day trips, shopping (of course!)

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Claustrophobia, and Ophidiophobia (fear of snakes) although pet snakes are fine

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Not really

What do you get complemented on most often? My Southern accent, my eyes, and my hands. And sometimes my cooking.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? Sometimes I get annoyed that I'm so short.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End the disparity of global wealth, cure and treat AIDS worldwide, and heal/comfort all the animals who need it

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Debbie Allen or Savion Glover

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Atheist/agnostic

Do you generally feel understood? Yes, by my friends

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Absolutely

Biggest concern about aging: Losing my intellectual abilities

What were you like in high school? Total party girl

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes, very appealing

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Gay marriage, LGBT equality, freedom of speech, freedom to read, suicide prevention

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My father's, and my own. Other people's opinions are important in general. But what I think of myself is more important.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme, but the world knows me as a lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme and girl or baby girl

Current relationship status: single and hopeful

What you look for in a partner: In no particular order: Sense of humor, intelligence, stability, confidence, inner strength, "butch-ness", how she/hy has their life together...someone who is old-fashioned, loving, dominant, respectful, fun, interesting, protective of me, sweet, rough around the edges, mature, affectionate, romantic, and passionate.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Very butch, lots of fun, sometimes a little bit of a "bad boy", sometimes too insecure, but overall good people.

Number of times you've been in love: 4

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How natural and electrifying it felt

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? I haven't met hym/her yet

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes, it was a great relationship, but didn't work out in the end. No regrets though, and it wasn't because of the distance.

Age when you had your first kiss: First real kiss, 14

Describe your best kiss: Two will tie for "best": #1. the first time I kissed a woman. I was 17, and I thought I would melt right there. #2. I'll tell the story to someone who asks!

Describe your last kiss: It was a goodbye kiss, when a brief dating relationship ended.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: In butches, what attracts me most is the combination of masculinity, strength, and tenderness all at the same time--like when they show incredible strength and gentleness with a touch or a kiss.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: A butch trait that turns me off the most is insecurity OR lack of respect for women, it's so crude.


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Someone I was dating

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not much!

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either is fine

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Lots of dirty talk, role playing, and pulling my hair

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Ummmmm, that hasn't happened in a long time.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Not naked, but very close to it

Do you have any Fetishes: Yep, I'm keeping that one a secret

Name your fetishes: See above

Leather - yes or no?: Little bit

BDSM - yes or no?: Little bit

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

How often do you masturbate? A few times a month

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Trimmed very short, unless someone makes a special request otherwise.
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Real Name (first only):Heather

Age:41

Astrological Sign:Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 7

Location: Sacramento, Ca

Height: 5'5

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Brown with highlights some natural some colored

Piercings - how many & where: ears only 2 in each

Tattoos - how many & where: 3, one on right ankle one on right arm and a left side chest tat

Cat person or dog person: dog

Job: Inventory management/systems administrator

What do you like about your job?: the numbers factor

What do you loathe about your job?: the people i work for

Favorite books / authors: I have many...one of my favorites Radclyffe Hall

Favorite bands/musicians: I love all kinds of music currently stuck on classic rock

Favorite movies: Somewhere in Time, The shawshank redemption, fried green tomatoes, time travelers wife...anything with time travel

Favorite websites: genealogy sites, fb, bfp

Favorite TV shows: survivor

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? vanilla,strawberry white chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sing and dance while getting ready for work

What is your pet peeve: one of them cupboard doors left open

Favorite curse word: serious? ah i dont usually say this here and have tried really hard to stop cursing however my favorite curse word is FUCK

Favorite magazine: I do not indulge in magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Mediterranean-Greek

Do you like to dance? love it

If you could change a law which would it be? All queers would be allowed to marry

Do you collect anything? bears and native things


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1912 i have some weird connection to the titanic that i have yet to understand

Would you ever have plastic surgery? nope

Your idea of a good meal: a homemade southern fried chicken dinner

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would want to sit in on a few presidential meetings

Introvert or extrovert: both ~ see gemini

Dream profession: to get paid more

What are your Hobbies: i like sewing quilting, dont do it enough

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: yes...shopping..

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes and yes...

What do you get complemented on most often? my smile when i do

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my tmd...

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? zero famine, sustainable farms everywhere, enough water for all peoples, acceptance of all peoples

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The presidents

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: spiritual yes i beleive in God and science i dont however believe in mans interpretations

Do you generally feel understood? nope

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: none

What were you like in high school? a brat

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes with thr right person for me

Issues that you feel most passionate about: marriage equality and womens rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my eldest daughter


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: kindness above anything else

The "type" of person you tend to attract: um the kind that tend to be asses

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? my knees got really weak...i never believed that, go figure

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamy preferred

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? A strong minded, kind butch the kind that would make me want to stay in bed

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? for a minute

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no, however have had long term relationships

Age when you had your first kiss:12

Describe your best kiss: decline to answer

Describe your last kiss: a year ago

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: A butch's arms

What trait in a woman turns you off?: cruelty to animals or humans



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: declining to state

What are you self-conscious about naked? nothing i love being naked

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? on low lights so i can see

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: took control of the "fuck", teasing, mutual pleasing

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: lack of kissing, lack of sexual aggressiveness, the other person gets off once and is done..

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? semi neuds

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes: not here

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? regularly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed and shaved
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Real Name (first only): Angel

Age: 36

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 18

Location: Orlando FL

Height: 5'7

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Dark brown

Piercings - not any more.

Tattoos - nope. I go back and forth with wanting tats.

Cat person or dog person: usually dog but cats have somehow grown on me over the years.

Job: security and hospitality.

What do you like about your job?: customer interaction.

What do you loathe about your job?: idiot supervisors.

Favorite books / authors: Edgar Allan Poe

Favorite bands/musicians: Eminem, Drake, some country.

Favorite movies: Titanic, Notebook, Twilight movies, Mr & Mrs Smith, Wanted, Fast & Furious, Good Fellas, Godfather movies, Scarface.

Favorite websites: BFP, FB.

Favorite TV shows: Dancing With The Stars, Bachelor, Jersey Shore, Rookie Blue, Criminal Minds.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all. whatever the craving.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sit around in my boxers.

What is your pet peeve: not wanting to be a parent or babysitter to an adult.

Favorite curse word: FUCK.

Favorite magazine: Maxim.

A culture that intrigues you: Muslim.

Do you like to dance? ehhh. Sometimes. lol

If you could change a law which would it be? gay rights.

Do you collect anything? baseball cards and caps.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I would rather travel to the future to see what new technology there is and maybe be the one to invent something first!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? breast augmentation sounds good.. I would and hope to!

Your idea of a good meal: steak! cooked medium well.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? everything?!

Introvert or extrovert: both at times.

Dream profession: sit on the beach.

What are your Hobbies: dont really have any. guess I need some. :/

Do you have Phobias, what are they? nahh.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yup and I have no clue.

What do you get complemented on most often? my work.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? not being born into the body that I feel like.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? gas prices, peace, no homeless or hungry.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? a musicians.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I believe in God. I have faith and am a spiritual person.

Do you generally feel understood? noo.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yea.

Biggest concern about aging: health.

What were you like in high school? a jock.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? perhaps someday.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: justice, equality.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: daughter.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: trans.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): guy.

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: honesty first.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: hmmm. wish I knew. lol.

Number of times you've been in love: once.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? feeling comfortable.

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamous.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? someone is on my mind but not possible.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yeah.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? guess not if it didn't last.

Age when you had your first kiss: teen.

Describe your best kiss: long lasting make out. . passionate and sloww.

Describe your last kiss: pecks.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, mouth.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: drama.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: it has been sometime. I dk .

What are you self-conscious about naked? not having the body I would like.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? any and all of the above. lol. candlelight.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sucked my dick, jerked me off, told me to fuck them harder.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: tongue in my mouth, said they came when maybe they didn't, relating to hygiene.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? i have.

Do you have any Fetishes: sure.

Name your fetishes: feet, nails.

Leather - yes or no?: ?

BDSM - yes or no?: yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? not often enough. lol

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trim.
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PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jen

Age: 48

Astrological Sign: Cancer

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 6/29

Location: Nashville

Height: 5'5"

Eye Color: blue

Hair Color: brunette, right now lol

Piercings - how many & where: just ears

Tattoos - how many & where: nope

Cat person or dog person: both!

Job: Entertainment

What do you like about your job?: When I get to travel

What do you loathe about your job?: I am blessed to have an unloathesome job!

Favorite books / authors: So many! "To Kill a Mockingbird" is my most favorite.

Favorite bands/musicians: Beatles, Pink Floyd, Vivaldi, Snoop....I love all kinds of music.

Favorite movies: So many! Stalag 17, Sunset Boulevard, Bordello of Blood, Mars Attacks, Dazed and Confused, Jaws, Carrie, The Omen....I love movies.

Favorite websites: BFP, FB, CNN

Favorite TV shows: Househunters International, History stuff, Law and Orders, CSIs, Hot In Cleveland, Project Runway, SUTYCD

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Depends on what we are talking about. lol. Ice cream? Strawberry.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Dance

What is your pet peeve: Rudeness

Favorite curse word: Fuck in all its varieties.

Favorite magazine: Conde Nast Traveler, Discover, Real Simple

A culture that intrigues you: all of them

Do you like to dance? Love it!

If you could change a law which would it be? Major healthcare reform

Do you collect anything? Books, old records

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I saw the Butterfly Effect, better to stay in the here and now!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? if I needed it, sure. But elective surgery? probably not.

Your idea of a good meal: Sushi or steak or cake

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Secret Documents at the Vatican

Introvert or extrovert: In, but its hard to tell, I vascillate.

Dream profession:Travel planner? Author

What are your Hobbies: reading, music, theatre

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: not fond of worms and snakes/reptiles

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Not sure

What do you get complemented on most often? probably my hair or cleavage

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? the pain I feel from all the showing off I did when younger

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Cleaner air and water and fixing the Ozone Layer

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Someone who wears really comfortable shoes. lol.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: We are all ONE

Do you generally feel understood? varies

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
probably

Biggest concern about aging: what the hell makeup to wear lol

What were you like in high school? Adept at finding ways to get out of actualy going to class.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Up until this point, not really. Maybe someday, as long as I don't have to wear anything itchy.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Fairness, equality, racism, feminism

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my own


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Weird

Current relationship status: Single but blessed with wonderful friends!

What you look for in a partner: Great sense of humor, very liberal views and very very very laid back with some laid back thrown in and not too much family stuff. Not quite a hot, comatose orphan, but almost. Must be 4:20 friendly!

The "type" of person you tend to attract: It really varies

Number of times you've been in love: Wow. Hmmm. At the time, it seemd like a lot. In retrospect 4ish maybe? Who knows. lol.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How much I enjoyed just hanging out.

Monogamy or polyamory: Open to both

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My Baby

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Long Term? No.

Age when you had your first kiss: 14 from a boy, 21 from a girl

Describe your best kiss: I've had lot's of wonderful kisses!

Describe your last kiss: Scary

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Swag

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Fussyness



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: For me to know.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Listened to me

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Not Listening to me, Too Rough and Not Listening to me.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: Kinks I would say.

Name your fetishes: Being the Momi, electrical, sharp pointy things, items of torture

Leather - yes or no?: Yes

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

How often do you masturbate? Varies

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Right now, shaved. Always at least trimmed.


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PART I - GENERAL INFO

Astrological Sign: Libra

Location: NYC area

Height: 5’ 4”

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color: Blond

Piercings - how many & where: Left ear, one; right ear, two.

Tattoos - how many & where: None.

Cat person or dog person: Both. And if I could get on the floor and play with any other animal, it would be a South American capybara; and if I could give a wonderful, no-expense-spared home to an animal who needed one, it would be an octopus.

Job: Web article and speechwriter.

What do you like about your job? Interviewing writers, performers, biologists and others who are doing good work; writing in different voices for different assignments.

What do you loathe about your job? Having to cover events that don’t interest me or that annoy me, ideologically.

Favorite books/authors: I’ve been happy to become acquainted with the work of quite a few wonderful poets in the last couple years; Phil Miller, Elizabeth Haukaas, Gerry LaFemina, Gardner McFall, Mervyn Taylor, Cleopatra Mathis—the list is always growing. And it’s been fun to reconnect with old teachers who’ve influenced me since the eighties, like Quincy Troupe and poets I’ve always admired, like Mary Oliver, Elizabeth Bishop and Adrienne Rich.

Favorite bands/musicians: Pacifika, Buika, Adele, Aimee Mann, Neil Young, The Glands, early Liz Phair, Me'Shell Ndegéocello, Jarabedepalo, Bird York, Van Morrison; pop, and alternative for hanging out; electronica, hip hop and disco for the gym; Zero Seven and Nightmares on Wax (the Smoker’s Delight album) for sex—but I’m not as picky as I sound.

There’s a local cello/clarinet/piano trio I enjoy live once in while. Jazz, I like early Miles Davis, and when I need non-lyricized dreamy background music, John Barry movie soundtracks (Dances with Wolves, Out of Africa).

Favorite movies: I’ve watched Win/Win several times on cable, and loved Bernie, with Jack Black and Shirley MacLaine, last weekend. Going back further and jumping around in time: The Road (which I watched over and over, muting the more violent parts until I could watch it in its entirety without blinking—I’m fascinated by the resiliency of kindness in that post-apocalyptic environment).

Also, To Kill a Mockingbird, On the Waterfront (the soundtrack by Leonard Bernstein is exquisite and I adore the young Eva Marie Saint), Blade Runner (which matters most: who we are, or who we think we are?), The Wizard of Oz (Auntie Em reminds me of my grandmother), Bridget Jones Diary, Alien, lots more.

Favorite websites: I feel appreciative of Wikipedia and respect Open Source websites in general though I don’t seek them out. Sounds really commercial but I also like wandering around YouTube, looking at old Kids in the Hall episodes, and recently, archived stuff like interviews with Janis Joplin on Dick Cavett.

And then I hear about websites from friends, like underwaternewyork.com, which elicits stories and poems about objects found in the waterways around NYC; not just ship wreck-type stuff but the skeleton of a giraffe; there are all kinds of surprises under the surface.

Favorite TV shows: Recent cable series I’m hooked on include Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones and Girls.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Wouldn’t rule any of them out, but depends on my mood.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: I talk to the cat and make up names for her: Pot Roast, Big Head/Little Body, Possum. I tell her if she isn’t nice, she’s going to make a very nice toilet seat cover for me someday.

What is your pet peeve? People who don’t have an indoor voice.

Favorite curse word: God-fucking-dammit

Favorite magazine: National Geographic, The New Yorker, Poetry, The Same, 2 Bridges Review, Hanging Loose (my favorites in literary magazines is always changing).

A culture that intrigues you: I’m curious about little subcultures in New York City, like the jump rope culture (bucket list item: Double Dutch competition in Brooklyn), and I don’t know if “intrigue” is the right word, but I’m fascinated by counter cultures like the (now defunct), Shakers, who didn’t marry, and made huge rocking cribs for sick adults in their community. I’m also interested in the cultures of certain institutions, corporate cultures and cultures of other groups, including those centered on sexuality, like butch/femme culture.

Do you like to dance? I am a wild and happy albeit not particularly talented dancer.

If you could change a law which would it be? Any law that is based in religion, like not being to sell alcohol on Sunday, I would like to see abolished.

Do you collect anything? Books of poetry (I give fiction away). And I guess you could say ankle boots. I don’t feel that comfortable with collecting stuff, and because I've moved so much in the last 13 years, it’s more reassuring to lighten, rather than deepen my footprint.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
I’d like to take a little vacation in the 12th century or so, with a non-violent, pre-Columbian, pre-Aztec/Incan, matrilineal group of people like the Arawak or Taino; mild weather, fresh fish and fruit, plenty of resources to go around, habitats that smell sweetly of bundles of grass, art making and story telling both highly respected endeavors—any group like that, in some beautiful place near the equator, before Western Europeans mucked it all up.

I’d also like to go to New Guinea and see the (now extinct) Tasmanian Wolf or to North America when passenger pigeons would pass overhead in flocks so thick they blocked the sun, or the Galapagos, before tourists, when the animals were curious and unafraid.

I’d really like to travel back in time to see early humans, too, like the period of time when Neanderthals and Homosapiens were in Europe at the same time. I’d like to watch them interact, members from the two groups. Were they curious about each other? Wary about each other?

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Sure.

Your idea of a good meal: Healthy and tasty, not labor intensive, but involving some chopping (which I enjoy), and prepared in a familiar and colorful kitchen with someone I love, both of us barefoot, the windows open, a breeze from the garden slipping through, a bottle of wine on the counter. We’re sharing music we just found, switching around on an IPod on the counter, and neither of us has to get up early, and everyone in our lives is okay for at least that one day. That is my idea of a really, really good meal.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and what would you want to see? I’d like to go to a butch-only event, and see what they’re like when we’re not around.

Introvert or extrovert: I’m a high-functioning introvert.

Dream profession: Something that combines reading and writing poetry, dog training, and brainstorming to advise venture capitalists how to humanely spend their money. (You did say “dream.”)

What are your Hobbies: Bike riding, travel, museums, street fairs, online shopping for wrap dresses and skirts.

Do you have Phobias, what are they? No, I don’t have any.

Do you believe in past lives? No.

What do you get complemented on most often? My words. After that, how I look.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as an acceptable answer? My eyes keep getting worse.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would they be? Return the oceans to their healthiest state, redistribute all the world’s resources so no one suffers or starves, force manufacturers to stop destroying lives and the environment.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes would you choose? I’d like to walk in the shoes of a truly happy person for one day, to see how they respond to adversity and emerge triumphant, or at peace.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any. I am a secular humanist. I don’t believe in a god, an afterlife, past lives, or spirits. That said, I believe humans communicate with each other in metaphysical ways we are not capable of measuring, and our relationship with time is more complicated than our physiology allows us to know. Finally, in case I am not sounding like enough of a crackpot I will just add this: I think it’s reasonable to assume alien life forms exist and even hang out a bit, on Earth.

Do you generally feel understood? No.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
What a question! Since I think it’s intended to measure selflessness, I’ll just cut to the chase and say, Yes I’m selfless, but not to the point of self-destructiveness—and I often get something back when I give of myself, whether it’s to see someone I care about, be happy, or to later realize, they’ve got my back because I once had theirs.

I’m also assuming this question is intended to measure empathy and social consciousness, survival of the individual versus survival of the group, so I’ll also say Yes, I’m extremely empathetic. I couldn’t be a writer, if I weren’t. And my conscience leads me to protect the individual, because no group exists without individuals.

Biggest concern about aging: Having no one to talk to, especially in bed at night, before falling asleep.

What were you like in high school? Withdrawn, fearless, unconventional, cynical, curious about everything, wary, affectionate, highly creative.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes. I would be good at it. I’m both a devoted and independent partner, and particularly suited to the cozy, home-building aspects of marriage.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Fairness, in whatever form that takes: economic fairness, academic fairness, social fairness.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My own.


PART II: LOVE/SEXUALITY

Sexual orientation: Lesbian.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme

Current relationship status: I’m not available. (And I apologize if that sounds presumptuous.)

What you look for in a partner: Loyalty. Playfulness. Sparkly, steady braininess (spacing out, in that context, is A-OK with me). Optimism. Sexual adventurousness. Kindness. Someone with a distinctly unusual approach to life’s choices, and an innovative problem solver. A forgiving sort who does good in the world, and is patient with me.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Tops of all types. I also apparently have an unintentional and magical ability to attract a person’s exes back to her.

Number of times you've been in love: Three.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How much braver it made me feel, about everything else in my life.

Monogamy or polyamory: I can date more than one person at a time, but once I start having flashes of love for a person (flashes that eventually occur closer together, till it’s like a solid light in me), I automatically lose interest in anyone else.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in the world? Someone who loves me.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes, with someone in Provincetown. We weren’t suited for the long-term but we had great fun.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone you met online? Yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: 15

Describe your best kiss: Penn Station. Waiting with her for her train, and we’d never kissed before. Standing at the top of the stairs after her train has been announced, everyone rushing around us to catch the train, and I turn to face her, nuzzle against her shirt, stretch up, balancing myself by holding her arm, and kiss her on the mouth. I couldn’t stop myself.

Describe your last kiss: Can’t remember.

What are you most physically attracted to in a woman? Her voice, how she moves through a space crowded with other people, how she looks at me. Also, her shoulders, height, back of the neck a little bristly, an intentional way of touching me.

What trait in a woman turns you off? Talking over me and misunderstanding me (sounds like two traits but they often are interwoven).


PART III: SEX

What are you self-conscious about naked? A few more pounds I have yet to lose, about six or seven. (Yeah, I know, I’m hard on myself.)

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the lights on or off? Low lights. I like to show off a little.

Three things a person has done to you in a making-out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
1) Started with lots of making out—in my kitchen, leaning against the window sill, on the couch, up against the wall in my bedroom. 2) Responded to my touch, seemed very turned on by the way I touched her. 3) Sensed my trust at some point and took over from there.

Three things a person has done to you in a making-out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
1) Insisted in having a really bright goose-neck lamp trained on the bed; I felt like I was in the OR being poked at by aliens. 2) Said to me, “You taste like honey”—corny and nonsensical metaphor. If you’re going to BS me, at least be inventive. 3) Making girlie noises when she was close to coming; no please don’t do that.

Have you ever taken naked pics/videos of yourself? No.

Do you have any Fetishes: No.

BDSM: yes or no? Open, with someone I trusted.

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes.

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PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Malissa

Age:
42

Astrological Sign:
Aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year):
2/9

Location:
Pa

Height:
5"2" in the morning before gravity takes over

Eye Color:
brown

Hair Color:
brown with some silver

Piercings - how many & where:
once on each ear

Tattoos - how many & where:
two, one on my upper left shoulder and one around my right wrist

Cat person or dog person:
cat

Job:
I write (have had a few things published) I bake (sell baked goods in the summer and around Christmas) I've catered a few events and, when asked, have crocheted afghans and infant clothing and have designed and sewn formal wear for little girls, for profit. My career field of choice was home health care, but a really mean ex did some really mean things and my doctor took me out of that field. Sucks.

What do you like about your job?:
Writing, I love the creavtivity, the sometimes spontaneous ideas that pop into my head: inside each character dwells a little piece of me. Baking/Catering: love cooking and love the way I surprise the hell out of people with how good my cooking actually is...*G Crocheting and sewing, I love getting a picture in my head, putting it on paper, then creating the pattern, whether in my head or on paper, then completing each design. I surprise myself with what I come up with sometimes.

What do you loathe about your job?:
Writers block, it sucks. I never cook ir bake without cutting or burning myself . Ripping out seams or rows of yarn when I've messed or missed a stitch.

Favorite books / authors:
Bible, the entire Little House series, the Left Behind series and a book called "The Shack".

Favorite bands/musicians:
Melissa Etheridge, Newsboys, Point of Grace, ... I like country, classical, pop, rock, an occassional heavy metal tune and gospel.

Favorite movies:
LOL. This always gets me, I sometimes wonder what people think when they learn my favorite movies. "The Sound of Music" & "Meet Me in St. Louis" I watched them with my Mom.

Favorite websites:
BFP, PoD

Favorite TV shows:
NCIS, Paranormal State, Snapped

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Chocolate & Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Apologizing out loud to God, when I cuss. lol.

What is your pet peeve:
getting myself into my "ultimate" walking pace and mind space, and someone steps out in front of me and walks slower than a turtle on "slow-mo" speed.

Favorite curse word:
Damn... sorry God.

Favorite magazine:
Don't have one.

A culture that intrigues you:
Native American culture

Do you like to dance?
No.

If you could change a law which would it be?
Paternity laws. Any perp who rapes/molests a woman and "fathers" a child through that act, should NEVER have the right to know if that child is his and if it is, should have all paternity rights severed.

Do you collect anything?
Precious Moments, anything, daisys, Thomas Kinkade, anything and individual china teacup/saucer sets. I told my aunt ONE time, I preferred tea over coffee, and every christmas/birthday there after, I received a cup and saucer set, sometimes more than one. I even have cups and saucers with daisys, precious moments and thomas kinkade scenes on them... lol

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
Sept.23/1994, 1:30 pm. I hung the phone up, after speaking to my mother in the hospital. I didn't tell her I loved her, because we were getting ready to go visit her. I never got another chance. She died at 7:30 that evening. No one saw it coming, not even her doctors.

Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Maybe...

Your idea of a good meal:
A meal that's shared with someone/s special.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
OK.... thought for like 5 minutes about this. I honestly don't know.

Introvert or extrovert:
Both

Dream profession:
mother

What are your Hobbies:
writing, reading, crocheting/sewing baking, cooking, hiking, singing and gardening

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:
Claustrophobia and arachnophobia

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Nope.

What do you get complemented on most often?
cooking/baking and singing

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
Chronic anemia and insomnia

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?
Clean the air, the water and preserve the land

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
TTs, I'd love to see the world through the eyes of a child, again

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
Born again Christian

Do you generally feel understood?
Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Yes

Biggest concern about aging:
losing cognitive function

What were you like in high school?
band/chorus geekier.. even the geeks thought I was a geek lol

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about:
child abuse, victim advocacy, civil rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
WWJD, seriously


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
low maintenance femme

Current relationship status:
single

What you look for in a partner:
Kindness, strength, willingness to lead, honesty, faithfulness and all wrapped up in a butch woman.

The "type" of person you tend to attract:
Sadly enough, needy clingy narcisists... am working on changing that. lol

Number of times you've been in love:
Once

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
How love, even in it's truest form, can not thrive if it is not given in return.

Monogamy or polyamory:
Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
Xena... lol. Other than her? I don't believe I've had the oppurtunity to meet her face to face yet.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes for long term, no for successful, hence the whole single thing.

Age when you had your first kiss:
5, cousin, male, icky.. was a dare.

Describe your best kiss:
It's a toss up... a kiss from TT.. mouith open wide, all five teeth showing, and a grin when it's done.... (TT is my 11 month old god son)
OR
she took my chin in her hand, tilted my face up, I pulled away, she slid her hand into my hair, pulled my head back and took my mouth. No other way to describe it but.. taking.

Describe your last kiss:
a TT kiss...

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Eyes, mouth and hands fascinate me, and I prefer women taller than me, and I love long hair on a woman.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Narcissism


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
ex g/f

What are you self-conscious about naked?
being naked...lol

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
dimmed

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
talk dirty, hold me down and lightly bit my neck.. yeah... love the whole neck biting thing.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
talked on the phone, got a bit too rough, said all kinds of corny phrases... think she made a list from a romance novel...lol

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
no

Do you have any Fetishes:
not really

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:
If we're talking about a tall butch in leather? Hell yeah!

BDSM - yes or no?:
D/s

Have you ever had a one-night stand?
yes

How often do you masturbate?
myob lol

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
depends on what were talking about
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Real Name (first only): Kirsten

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Capricorn

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9th

Location: Edmonton, AB

Height: 5'2"

Eye Color: brown/hazel

Hair Color: brown (w/ blond highlights)

Piercings - how many & where: none

Tattoos - how many & where: none

Cat person or dog person: cat

Job: finance

What do you like about your job?: I'm good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: can get boring at times

Favorite bands/musicians: serena ryder, celine dion, ABBA, amy bishop

Favorite movies: Mama Mia, The Notebook, Away We Go

Favorite websites: facebook, butchfemme planet

Favorite TV shows: CSI, Law & Order, Glee, 30 Rock

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Ice-cream right? chocolate fo sho

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: a happy dance

What is your pet peeve: arrogance

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: Psychology Today

Do you like to dance? YES!!

Do you collect anything? tacky souvenirs

Would you ever have plastic surgery? no

Your idea of a good meal: med steak, grilled veggies

Introvert or extrovert: both (depending on the situation)

Dream profession: physiotherapist or psychologist

What are your Hobbies: camping, golfing, bootcamp, hot yoga, movies, singing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: spiders!

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes

What do you get complemented on most often? my sweet nature

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my height

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? mother theresa

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: spiritual, believe in a higher power

Do you generally feel understood? mostly

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: loss of independance

What were you like in high school? class clown

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: domestic abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my mom's


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian/queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): soft-butch

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: sense of humor, passion, compassion, romantic, sweet

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? how easily it was to lose myself in her

Monogamy or polyamory: for a life partner (monogamy)

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? don't want to say

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: full of passion and romance

Describe your last kiss: passion-filled

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, curves, smile, lips, long hair

What trait in a woman turns you off?: arrogance



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: me lol

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either is fine

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: dirty talk, submission,

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: too vocal or too aggressive

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? no

Do you have any Fetishes: no

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: open to it. Ask & ye shall recieve

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? every 2-3 days

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed
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Real Name (first only): Lisa

Age: 41

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9/15

Location: Virginia

Height: 5'2

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Blonde highlights

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear, nose, eyebrow

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 - Left ankle, right calf, upper back, left breast

Cat person or dog person: Both

Job: Certified Medical Assistant and Certified Phlebotomist

What do you like about your job?: Drawing blood

What do you loathe about your job?: Slow doctor. Always at least an hour behind.

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Stevie Nicks, Jason Aldean, Trace Adkins, Adele, Lil' Wayne

Favorite movies: You've Got Mail, Sweet Home Alabama, Dazed & Confused,

Favorite websites: This one

Favorite TV shows: Sister Wives, My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Hmmm, I dunno

What is your pet peeve: People who don't use turn signals

Favorite curse word: F**k (yes I have a potty mouth)

Favorite magazine: People

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance? Yes

If you could change a law which would it be? A bunch

Do you collect anything? Not really


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1969 Woodstock. I think that would have been so awesome to experience that.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Maybe

Your idea of a good meal: Home cooked

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Introvert or extrovert: Both

Dream profession: Own my own business

What are your Hobbies: Flower gardening, scrapbooking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I'm afraid of heights, snakes. Don't what "phobias" they are...LoL

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes. No clue with mine.

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes and hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Preserve land, Clean up the rivers, lakes, etc.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Spiritual

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school? I was considered a "redneck". I was shy and only had a few close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Marriage equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mom


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme

Current relationship status: Single for 14 months

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, patience, kindness

The "type" of person you tend to attract: emotionally "unavailable" butches.

Number of times you've been in love: 2 or 3 times

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How overwhelming the feeling was.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My son. I know its probably an odd answer, but I lost my son 4 years ago and if I could just hold him again it would make me so happy.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Never

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss: Mmmm....slow, sensual, with just a little nibble on the bottom lip

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Their smile and eyes get me every time.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cheaters, liars, drama queens



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Someone I dated briefly

What are you self-conscious about naked? Nothing really.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Doesn't matter

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kiss on my neck

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Being too vocal

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Guilty

Do you have any Fetishes: No

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yeah

How often do you masturbate? Every day...LoL

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Shaved
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Real Name (first only): Ann

Age:49

Astrological Sign:Aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year):January 22

Location: La Petite Roche

Height:5'0

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color:Brown with highlights

Piercings - how many & where:2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where:Not yet

Cat person or dog person: Animal person, but currently owned by two cats.

Job:Educator

What do you like about your job?:When a student realizes they can "get" physics

What do you loathe about your job?:Social problems getting into the classroom

Favorite books / authors:e.e.cummings, Chekhov, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Pushkin, about any Russian novel you can think of.

Favorite bands/musicians:That changes way too much. I love a bit of everything, except heavy metal and rap.

Favorite movies:It's a Mad, Mad, Mad Mad World; The Long, Long Trailer; Gone With The Wind

Favorite websites:Right here, FB, Livejournal, Huffington Post, Etiquette Hell

Favorite TV shows:Amazing Race, Top Shot, American Ninjas, Dance Moms, and Dance Moms, Miami (if it comes back), telenovelas

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Not a huge ice cream eater, but chocolate fudge.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Make like the cat is talking and give it a "voice"

What is your pet peeve:People who complain about something but never take a solution

Favorite curse word:Jiminy crickets (I try very hard not to swear)

Favorite magazine:Astronomy Today

A culture that intrigues you:Hasidic Jew, Russian, Chinese-oh, you name it

Do you like to dance?Slow and close with someone special, yes. I also did jazz dance (like in Dance Moms) when I was in high school. Fast dancing, not really.

If you could change a law which would it be?Equal funding for all school districts regardless of neighborhood

Do you collect anything?Cookbooks, if that counts

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?1862, in Sparta, Ontario to find out what in the world happened to my biological g-great grandparents and why their children lived with their aunt and uncle.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? If I had a disfiguring injury, but not just to take fat out or pump up boobs.

Your idea of a good meal:Really good spaghetti, salad and breadsticks followed by a great dessert

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would play in a hippo pond in Africa, so they wouldn't attack me but they're so cute.

Introvert or extrovert:Very shy until you know me better.

Dream profession:I'm doing that now, but maybe I'd move it to Saint Petersburg or Moscow.

What are your Hobbies:Reading, playing keyboard, genealogy, learning languages, swimming, astronomy

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:Not great at heights, those rickety staircases, escalators, or bugs

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?Not sure about reincarnation but I sometimes have conversations that I know I've had before-I can fill in the "blanks".

What do you get complemented on most often? Eyes, smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?Being shorter than most everyone else

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? 1)clean water for all, 2) universal literacy and 3) safe and effective birth control for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The President. I think we'd all have a better feeling for his job.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I am Jewish but don't follow kosher. It's far more based on doing good than theology.

Do you generally feel understood?Not by most people, unless someone's as weird as I am.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes.

Biggest concern about aging:Becoming a financial or emotional burden to my children.

What were you like in high school?A big nerd and a band geek! Very quiet but liked by people from all groups, though I didn't have a lot of close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? A colossal no.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Education, health, capital punishment (abolish), child abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My own, followed by my mature, common-sense led daughter

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:Coming to like "queer"

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):I don't fit any one thing, but femme-ish, I guess.

Current relationship status:Not looking but open to it

What you look for in a partner:Kindness, a sense of humor, intelligence, emotional openness, honesty, responsible

The "type" of person you tend to attract:Until recently, people with significant problems who needed "rescuing"

Number of times you've been in love:Twice

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?How strong that feeling is

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?Platonically, any Russian friend because that would mean I was there (probably)

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? "Successful" in the sense that we're still great friends today, yes, but it didn't work out romantically for reasons other than distance.

Age when you had your first kiss:15 for a boy, 42 for a girl!

Describe your best kiss:In the rain, of course.

Describe your last kiss:The last time I saw LDR woman from above. It was sad, but OK.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:Eyes that smile, a great smile, nice hair, um..it depends

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Emotionally? Drama, "dumbing" themselves down, no confidence.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Romantically? LDR woman above. Sometimes daughter, if I'm in the shower.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not much!

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Dim light. It shouldn't look like a surgical suite

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Um...not forgetting about my back, making noise, really paying attention to all of me.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Not specific to gender: "testing the roast" to see if I'm "ready", asking "Did you come?", being way too rough

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? I was a life model in college, so was painted and sculpted .

Do you have any Fetishes:that's personal

Name your fetishes:ditto

Leather - yes or no?:no

BDSM - yes or no?:not much

Have you ever had a one-night stand?no

How often do you masturbate?Enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?gadzooks, that's personal

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Real Name (first only): Damon

Age: 50

Astrological Sign: Water

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-06

Location: Denver Colorado

Height: 5'4

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Salt and Pepper

Piercings - how many & where: Yes

Tattoos - how many & where: 12 arms, back and chest more to come wont stop until I run out of room

Cat person or dog person: both but none at this time roomate has both

Job: Warehouse

What do you like about your job?: the hours and peeps

What do you loathe about your job?: the liars if you can not tell the truth say nothing and if you are witness to a liar say so if you do not you are no better

Favorite books / authors: I used to love reading I have become to busy and do not have the time but I do need to change that

Favorite bands/musicians: anything with a Soul it needs to talk to me, Manson, Disturbed, Korn you get the Idea

Favorite movies: All the Underworlds, Queen of the Dammed

Favorite websites: Thunder, Fetlife, ITaboo the Planet

Favorite TV shows: Saving Grace

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing to myself and the StoneButch Dance

What is your pet peeve: Liars

Favorite curse word: All LMFAO

Favorite magazine: Gamestop

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? Life is a dance and yes

If you could change a law which would it be? I do not smoke it but MaryJane

Do you collect anything? Knives, gaming stuff and hats


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1974 the year my aunt died I want to talk with her again just be close

Would you ever have plastic surgery? saving for top surgery

Your idea of a good meal: anyting you cook together

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I can not share this

Introvert or extrovert: both

Dream profession: BDSM club owner and gaming store

What are your Hobbies: fishing and camping

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: clean. clean, and did i say clean

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes, I must work harder on why I am here again and what I made a contract to do

What do you get complemented on most often? how I care about others

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? top

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? sharing, caring and loving

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? my aunt

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: we are here until we learn what we set out to Native american

Do you generally feel understood? I understand myself mostly working on the rest this is what matters

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I would sacrifice for 1

Biggest concern about aging: less time to do what I want

What were you like in high school? quite but protecter of those would could not do it for themselves

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: I am passionate about all I do

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: mine but I listen to all others and I care about what they are feeling


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: StoneButch

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty

The "type" of person you tend to attract: You would have to ask them

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? Her

Monogamy or polyamory: poly

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Her

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? tried but I am not ment to

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: everyone of them

Describe your last kiss: full of desire and passion

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: who she is and of course breasts

What trait in a woman turns you off?: no reguard for others



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? not gonna happen

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? On

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: all of it

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: touched where they know not to

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes you name it

Name your fetishes: it would be easier to name the ones I dont like, anal, scat and golden shower

Leather - yes or no?: Yes

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? nope

How often do you masturbate? never I am Stone

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
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QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): T

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-25

Location: SW Nebraska

Height: 5'7"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Mostly brown

Piercings - just ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 now(upper back, mid back, left upper arm & right forearm)...2 planned soon(upper right arm & left forearm)

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Ethanol Expert

What do you like about your job?: I am good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: the circle of love...aka good ole boys club

Favorite books / authors: Anything that actually holds my interest long enough for me to finish the book

Favorite bands/musicians: Brad Paisley, Blake Shelton, Reba, most country stars

Favorite movies: The Ultimate Gift, Loin King, The Last Holiday

Favorite websites: here...facebook, ehow, wikipedia

Favorite TV shows: Criminal Minds, Crossing Jordan, Numbers

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? depends on the day

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance while cooking

What is your pet peeve: there's not a lot that really gets to me...

Favorite curse word: Shit

Favorite magazine: Smithsonian & Handyman

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? for the most part yes

If you could change a law which would it be? speed limit thru Iowa (travel a lot)
Do you collect anything? patriotic stuff

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1990...I have some unanswered questions I would like to solve

Would you ever have plastic surgery? not unless absolutely necessary

Your idea of a good meal: there are so many....I love food...

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? OH the possibilities...

Introvert or extrovert: introvert almost always

Dream profession: Anything where I am actually valued

What are your Hobbies: bowling, studying, spending time in nature

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: not that I know of

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No...not really, altho sometimes I wonder

What do you get complemented on most often? eyes & smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? scars, but they all have stories

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? food crops for all, edible animals for all who eat them, and world peace

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The US President

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian mostly...with a lot of nature thrown in

Do you generally feel understood? depends on the topic and by whom

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? most definitely, and it wouldn't take 10,000...

Biggest concern about aging: health getting worse

What were you like in high school? "brown noser"...lol but I learned a lot

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? not really

Issues that you feel most passionate about: equality, work ethic, character

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: person? me...I'm the only one who really gets the whole picture of me...evereyone else gets what I show them

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesban

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Butch

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty, character, connection

The "type" of person you tend to attract: my bff's & I have theories...nothing specific to all

Number of times you've been in love: too many...there are rules now

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? love does not surprise me...

Monogamy or polyamory: 1 please

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? The 1 who fulfills me...body, mind, soul

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? depending on your definition of success...but I believe so

Age when you had your first kiss: 8...soccer field...

Describe your best kiss: so far...making her so weak in the knees I had to catch her so she didn't fall over...

Describe your last kiss: sweet tender small kisses

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, smile, hair, the way she carries herself...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: too high maintenace...(yes I have a scale)


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: someone who shouldn't have...damn doors should lock

What are you self-conscious about naked? not much anymore

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? depends on the mood

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: *evil laugh* can't give away all the secrets

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: going beyond the boundaries

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes: skin contact

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: no

Have you ever had a one-night stand? um...yep

How often do you masturbate? enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? depends on the weather, and my mood
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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):T

Age:

Astrological Sign:Cancer

Birth Date: (day only - not year):June 27

Location:Oregon

Height:5'3

Eye Color:ice Blue

Hair Color:Brown

Piercings - how many & where:none

Tattoos - how many & where:none

Cat person or dog person:dog

Job:Cleaning and Painting Apartments, Writing Erotica on the side

What do you like about your job?:lol i like to paint up and down

What do you loathe about your job?:its boring

Favorite books / authors:Lisa Shapiro,Sheila Walsh

Favorite bands/musicians:Too Many to name, Snow patrol,lifehouse, a lot more

Favorite movies:Friend green tomatoes,Steel magnolias,Repo the genetic opera,Hello dolly,To kill a mockingbird SO many others

Favorite websites:This one, and Facebook lol

Favorite TV shows:Bones,New girl,Law and order Svu,Criminal Minds,Greys anatomy
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?Chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sing

What is your pet peeve: fake people

Favorite curse word:i try not to curse

Favorite magazine:None

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance?Nope

If you could change a law which would it be?I would sentence all sex offenders to be castrated

Do you collect anything?m&m collectables


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
1960 or earlier
Would you ever have plastic surgery?no

Your idea of a good meal:steak,carrots,pasta

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Dream profession:To help children that have been sexually or any kind of abused

What are your Hobbies:Writing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:i hate spiders

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?I am unsure on this

What do you get complemented on most often?My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? im too short

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? a homeless person

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I believe in God

Do you generally feel understood?Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Yes
Biggest concern about aging:My memory

What were you like in high school?I didnt go

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?nope i think its just a piece of paper

Issues that you feel most passionate about:child abuse,domestic violence

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My Moms


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:hmmmmmm

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):Butch

Current relationship status:Non existant LOL

What you look for in a partner:trust,understanding,loyalty,non selfish
The "type" of person you tend to attract:selfish types

Number of times you've been in lovence

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?that it actually happened

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?April

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?Yes

Age when you had your first kiss:9

Describe your best kiss:most amazing kiss because I was actually IN love

Describe your last kiss: hmm was awesome

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:thier tummy

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Selfishness



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Hmmm

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Played with my hair,kissed my inner arm,
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Tried touching me,tried taking a pic of me naked,

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?no

Do you have any Fetishes:LOL Yep

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No
BDSM - yes or no?:YES

Have you ever had a one-night stand?Yes

How often do you masturbate?multiple times daily does that count LOL maybe im kidding

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?Hmmmm
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I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

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PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Ask me and i will tell you

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 13

Location: Southern California

Height:5'5 AND A HALF

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Colorark Brown

Piercings - how many & where: Just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: One small one on my wrist

Cat person or dog person: CAT!

Job: Management

What do you like about your job?: EVERYTHING!!!

What do you loathe about your job?: Sometimes family dynamics get complicating

Favorite books / authors: Sookie Stackhouse series/ Charlaine Harris

Favorite bands/musicians: The Cure/ Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Goonies, Gone with the Wind, Valley Girl

Favorite websites:This one

Favorite TV shows: Secret Life of the American Teenager, Adventure Time

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL!!!

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing or Dance, everywhere and anywhere

What is your pet peeve: Constant self pity

Favorite curse word:Probably the F word

Favorite magazine: Time

A culture that intrigues you: Mexican American Culture

Do you like to dance? LOVE IT

If you could change a law which would it be? Law against Gay Marriage

Do you collect anything? Disneyland Maps, the covers are always changing, and Kermit stuff


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I dont think i would like to travel back i wouldnt do well with opression.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? YES

Your idea of a good meal: Ceviche!! Made by ME, so it has plenty of avocado and shrimp.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would go see animals in their natural habitat and not fear that they would tear me to shreds!

Introvert or extrovert:Extro, unless its very personal then im intro.

Dream profession:Physical Therapist

What are your Hobbies:Reading, Traveling (Locally), Painting Ceramics, Movies, Listening to Music, Nature walks.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Darkness, Deep Water, Dying

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes, although against my religion, I think i was a peasant of some sort.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? My belly!! Ughh

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? NO hate anywhere, no poverty, and end to preventable illnesses.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I like my shoes just fine!

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Im catholic, but not Roman, I do not follow vatican/Pope beliefs.

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes i would as long as one of them swore to love my children as i do and assure their futures.

Biggest concern about aging: WRINKLES!!!

What were you like in high school? Mean, popular for the most part though.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? One day!

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Gay marriage and Healthcare

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My kids


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): All woman, femme

Current relationship status:Single

What you look for in a partner:Sense of humor!, companionship, comfort.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: All types

Number of times you've been in love:1

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That it could actually happen

Monogamy or polyamory: MONOGAMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? There are many!

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? N/A

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss:

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Sense of humor, smile, personality, height.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Low self worth or esteem



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:

What are you self-conscious about naked? MY Tummy

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?

Do you have any Fetishes:

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: Mebbe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?


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