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The economy sucks right now and I'm sure it has affected many on this site. I thought it would be interesting to share stories on how this recession/depression has affected your lives, whether it be positive or negative.
I have been unemployed for almost 2 yrs. Lost my home, my job and my self dignity all at one time! I was lucky to find a friend who allowed me to move in with her. My unemployment is running out now, and I'm struggling to find a job. The only avenue of looking for work now is via the internet. Employers will not accept applications face to face, which is absurb to me!! And, it seems to me that once you are over that "50" mark, they won't give you the time of day(they ask for the year you graduated high school). Believe it or not, I cannot even get a job at Walmart!! It's very frustrating to be able bodied, have years of experience, and the employers judge me via a piece of paper submitted on the internet!! Times have changed, I understand, but I am NOT a senior citizen yet, and I can wrap corners around alot of the younger generation. My good ethics and can do attitude does nothing for me now, as I'm at the mercy of the internet employers. What's your story?? |
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![]() Mrs. Daywalker (aka Lady Flamezzz) is a Nurse...a multi-certified, multi State licensed LPN-2 to be exact. Last year we relocated back to my home state of California. Over the last year it has become painfully evident that my working abilities that I have enjoyed all my life are now at a close, because my health sucks ass and is not getting any better. So the Mrs. was left to Job Search solo when we arrived. Fast forward past the bullshit of taking 4 months longer than necessary to get her Ca State Nursing License, we been in a heap of trouble for months, bordering on losing all we had left and making a tent house on the street. Ok, so she gets online and applies to many places. She takes the test for the State Prison System; every interview was followed up by a Freeze in hiring. Same seems to have happened with most of the places, even Flu Clinics that we sent hella paperwork to, that costs us money to have Notarized, etc...all of the sudden no one can afford to hire the Staff they advertised as needing. 6 months ago, we pounded the pavement, so to speak...and drove to a few of the places that we saw online. I waited in the car for hours while she went in, handed them her packet of goodies n credentials...maybe filled out an Application or did some testing. ![]() No response from them...until just recently. ![]() One of the places we visited in person months ago...called! ![]() For the last month she has been working her ass off to take a Full Time position, and she just got notice the other day that she is gonna get 3-12 hour shifts per week. This has saved our asses like you just don't know. Yes, she is a woman of size and over age 50, and yes...we know this has been a factor in the hiring process. ![]() But she is also a woman of substance who has many many years of experience to share and these folks called her, interviewed her for a brand new ward they were opening...and she is now employed. ![]() So online was not the only place to find jobs, turns out the old fashioned in your face method worked for us in this case, in her field. That's just pieces of our story over the last year. ![]() In the darkest times, our Friends and Family have gotten us through and at times it has brought me to tears knowing that so many cared and prayed and gave us support when we most needed it. ![]() ![]() ![]() And I wish everyone who is in the suck ass position we have been in the same kind of support that we have been fortunate enough to receive. ![]() We're still in many binds and it will take a couple months or more to see through the dust, but we have something to hang onto now and are grateful as hell for it. ![]() ![]()
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Thanks so much for sharing Daywalker, it gives me hope and others too, I'm sure. I'm glad you all found a job through tenacity and hard work. This inspires me to do the same.
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![]() I most definitely would have to say this is a depression. Too few have decent jobs. Too many folks are working at jobs that they are over qualified for, or have 3 or 4 part time jobs to just keep surviving. Many have had no raises or bonuses for a year or longer. The US is in trouble. I think as a country we need to stop out-sourcing jobs, and start creating jobs that pay decent wages/benefits once again. |
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I am so glad somethig has worked out for u and Mrs.Daywalker,Good nurses are very hard to find,congrats to u both.
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My parents were of the Great Depression era. Now let me explain why I think we are in a recession and not a depression. Our banking system though bruised is still functioning, our supermarkets still have food on their shelves, and though there are millions without jobs, there are millions more who do. While some may be eating from soup kitchens, I dare say it isn't in droves like it was in the early part of the 20th century. This rescission reminds me of the 1970's when gas was rationed and layoffs due to government (Reagan) regulations, and union unrest. That recession I am a product of.
My folks ate more potatoes than meat, and they owned a farm, so no not a depression but a deep recession. Housing starts are up, but that could be due to the improved weather. Small businesses are improving, this from direct observance, and the stimulus is working, slowly but it's working. All of this wasn't true in the depression. I hope you find work, keep plugging away, there are resources out there. Good luck.
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In our little corner of the world...
http://www.martinsvillebulletin.com/...e.cfm?ID=18322 and unemployment funds running out... http://money.cnn.com/2010/04/08/news...less_benefits/ One of our two grocery stores closed down recently. Food Lion and a Lowe's Food's were the only competition for Wal-mart until FL closed in the past month. Like the good capitalist pig they are, Wal- mart immediately fired quite a few full time employees replacing them with part timers now displaced from FL. We do have one tiny little pvtly owned market that is of course understocked and over priced, but we buy our meats there as they are fresh cut and better than the other options. The median income for a household in the county was $28,705, and the median income for a family was $36,232. Males had a median income of $25,391 versus $18,711 for females. The per capita income for the county was $15,574. About 9.60% of families and 13.40% of the population were below the poverty line, including 15.40% of those under age 18 and 18.00% of those age 65 or over.( This paragraph from census reportings) So, around here.. whether it is a depression or recession, it's pretty damned depressing. |
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I appreciate all your replies and insights to our nation in general. It is not easy in todays environment to survive, and yes, I do believe it will get better, but not anytime soon. Obama needs to figure out how to create new jobs, and helping the middle class people, before I see any turn in employment.
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I know that what is upon us does not fit the technical definition of an economic depression, but this recession depresses me! I mean it, it does affect my moods.
I have seen a lot of local businesses closing down here, yet, I know that there are several other areas of the US that are far worse off. Thinking of Michigan as one. There are certainly others I have never felt anger as deeply as I do right now with such institutions as banks and Wall Street. Its a very different kind of anger... more personal. I'm part of the Baby Boom generation that has contributed throughout my working life to the Social Security System and supported those that retired before me. I paid in for the previous generations to have security in old age- Now, this is being threatened. Of course, I developed other sources of retirement income- and that was pilfered by the banking industry and stock market! And my current tax contributions were used to bail-out these assbites that make millions!! Don't get me wrong, I am grateful for what I have. However, there is something really wrong in this picture! Truth be known, my kid and his kids do owe me the same economic contributions that I (and the rest of us) have made. There are no exemptions due anyone! I'm tired of the whinning!!! Billions of dollars have been spent on a war that has been the main source of our deficit rising as it has. We were lied to about that war and are now being fed BS about Afghanistan! Do not take this as any ill will against our troops. They do not make policy and I have no problem with backing up what they need financially now that we have put them in harms way. We need to help them out after leaving the military as well. But, I'm tired of all of the belly aching about the younger generations not deserving our debt. Those before them deserve what they worked hard for in contributing to. Also, the majority attend publically funded schools, drive on publically funded roads, etc. They have reaped the benefits of past generations. They are as responsible as we were, to maintain these systems. No, there is no free lunch… I am absolutely outraged at particular congressional members halting unemployment benefits! This in an insurance system, that workers pay into so that during times like this, there is something to fall back on!! It isn't an entitlement! The money is from the labor of workers that need it at this time! Yes, I’m ranting… Last edited by AtLast; 04-13-2010 at 02:26 PM. Reason: goofed |
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hey everybody!!!
great thread!! long story short i own a buisness i bought back in 2005 i was doing great up until the bailout of October 2008 then the consumer panic button went off and the service industry took a turn i have been fighting this recession for almost 2 years now and i am running out of cash to keep it afloat *shrugs* ![]() my life is too short to keep swinging are we in a recession or a depression?? i think we are in a recession heading towards a depression...why?? because i think wall street's greedy philosophy is partly to blame...i read an article a few years back that explains it fairly well...i am gonna go find it do i think it is gonna happen in 2011?? ![]() what i do know is that we will continue to be told "it is gonna turn around soon", but I don't see it. here is the article *this is not the only one i based my thoughts on* http://www.marketwatch.com/story/wel...ression-2-2011 i am all about SLOW MONEY Capitalism/Natural/Nuture capitalism i feel it is a start |
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I am lucky, I have a job, but my G/F lost her job with General Motors. She is back in school and I am paying the bills. We are making it work and I feel very lucky to live in an area not as heavily hit as many others.
Luckily, I have some money in the bank or we would be mega screwed.
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In reading the thread, I am thinking a lot about organizations like Kiva.com (http://www.kiva.org/) and how this concept could be applied to the queer community at large.
I remember a time when small personal loans by family members, friends, church organizations, community programs, etc. were made to support small business enterprises and this actually got the business going in the right direction. I am so ticked-off with the big banks not lending to small business during a time when it really could make a difference for so many. People who have fantastic ideas and a good business sense (which I don't) that just need a little help. There are countless people like this right here! If anyone has links that could be of benefit to the queer community entrepreneurs.. please post them. I can’t plunk down a bunch of cash, but what id my $5, $10, etc. could join forces with others and give a much needed boost to someone here or part of the larger LGBTIQ populations? |
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"...sometimes it seems our Gov't tries to 'help out' the Middle Class, but then the results are...less and less Middle Class folks to help out. Perhaps focusing on the folks caught up in the Poverty level would be the better approach, then there could be less and less folks...living in Poverty" ~ Sir Day Walker ![]() ![]()
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I was just checking out the Employment website and this is what they said:
As of March 19, 2010, approximately 3,300 individuals in California have run out of all available benefits and EDD estimates a total of 100,000 to 130,000 unemployed workers could run out of all benefits in the next few weeks. With all these peope being unemployed, I hope someone comes up with a scathingly brilliant idea to get the nation back on track!
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Eep.. And we're about to move to California this summer. K will be looking for work in the social work field and has connections so we're hopeful for that. I'm lucky because my work can be pretty much done from anywhere (and the company is going full steam ahead with a work visa). I know some might view me as taking a job away from someone else; the reality is, however, that I'm pretty specialized in my knowledge and skills so puts me in a bit of a unique situation.
That said, I'm leaning towards more of a split: some areas are in a recession while others depression (e.g., Michigan and California have both been suffering extensively for a while now, especially Michigan). I think more support for the smaller businesses (traditionally the backbone of any nation and the driving force behind pushing recession/depressions away) would go a long way, regardless of where in the country someone is. The past is what put us here but we need to move beyond that and find ways -- if necessary -- on our own to support ourselves and get beyond where the world is now. Kiva is one and I'm sure there are others as well. What small business ideas can we toss around to help each other get on our feet using skills we have?
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Thankfully I own part of my land free and clear. I did this in the beginning, refinancing the mortgage on the house and a few acres leaving me lots free and clear. You never really know what's going in the world today and the trends are all over the place often crumbling.
I have fantasies all the time about living with no impact. No electric, simple, free, grow my own food and completely sustain. I play it out in my head all the time. How could I live happy with very little? Is my health good enough to make it? If not what do I need to do to make it so? I have this wild hair up my ass. I work three times harder to make less. Sometimes I feel like a hamster on one of those wheels going around and around. It's just fucking insane and I've decided that come hell or high water I'm going to do something about it. I just cant wait for the government or anyone else to make me happy or take care of me. Screw 401K, putting money in banks (if you have it) and screw SS. I'd rather be spending my money on learning how to escape it all, sit by the creek, ponder, connect with the earth and watch the rest of it go by. What would it really take? what do you really need? Could you do it if you had to? I mean live as people did 100 years ago.
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lol- oh this is for Bit- No stinking toilet paper! lol I know you'll remember some of the post we shared about survival.
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