You look like "THAT"?!?!?!?!?!

[Scorp]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I would LOVE to post a pic of myself, but I really can't due to work. Too much personal info.

Hmmm, you're right...I better take that pic of me with my ass hanging out, down from the gallery.

[dixie]

Originally Posted by scootebaby

Good catch on my sweeties part about Jake...He is a goodlooking fella just no glasses(as far as i know) or golden retriever

The Daywalkers and Luv i met back in our AOL days and they looked as i imagined....its once i got to the dash site and here that i started getting it wrong--maybe its an age thing or something

Now y'all have me all nosey wanting to go check out folks on facebook lol

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by morningstar55

.... are there people at your work that are members here??? .......

Not that I am aware of. But, there is certainly reason to believe (with the work that I do), that it could happen. The butch/femme community is only so big, and this being the main site out there.... I am not saying anyone would be searching for me, but if someone decided to hit the gallery...ya know? And then decided to search my posts...not so fun.

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by JustJo

I think this is a genuine concern for some...at first I hesitated because I share a child with an asshatish ex-husband...and finally decided heck with it.

If I wasn't so personal with my post about my gender identity and brand of sexuality, it may be different for me.

I always wonder (not with you specifically Dapper) if it's because some of us feel like our outsides don't match our insides....and we hesitate to show the outside til the inside is known. Hope that makes sense....I'm still on the first cup of coffee.

That is a good point. But, no, that is not the issue for me. I am very comfortable with/confident in, how I look.

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[~Bo]

Originally Posted by June

Not everyone needs to know everything about me. As it is, I think too many know too much already

I know that you have two vulvas.




I really think you should post a pic of them.

[Lynn]

I typically post a photo or two, so I'm usually recognizable when I meet folks in person. Once I was told that I'm prettier in person, but I tend to doubt that, since I'm only human and so try to post the most flattering of shots. You know...the ones taken from an aerial view!

I've talked to one or two people, and I think there were no surprises. I'm kind of quiet, soft-spoken, but not shy. I probably am more relaxed, with a more evident sense of humor in person. I love talking to others--it's such a different, more personal experience than communicating on line. When I was single and meeting new people, I wanted to speak to prospective dates and partners as soon as possible. It made things more real and less like a game. I spoke to my partner, with whom I've been with now for six years, on the first night we connected (on a dating site). We met in person a week later, even though we each had to drive a couple of hours to meet half way.

In the past, on another site, I was much more active as a poster. When I met some people from that site, they said I was exactly who they expected. I took that as a great compliment because it's important to me to be as genuine as possible. I don't think I portray a full picture of myself on this site, as I've learned to be more protective and careful of what I say and how I say it.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by June

Look at Bo, trying for another <<@>>

He's an over achiever.

[ButchBowWow]

Originally Posted by Daywalker

I should go find n upload the photos of
Scoote n BowWow visiting The Daywalkers.

I can't speak for Scoote but I'd prefer to remain a mystery

[~Bo]

Originally Posted by June

Look at Bo, trying for another <<@>>

How bout that...........I'm on a roll.