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|  05-15-2011, 09:28 AM | #41 | 
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			Mickman, welcome! It is weird to receive those accolades when you know that others do it. Have you ever challenged someone when they praise you but not others, particularly women? 
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|  05-15-2011, 10:34 AM | #42 | |
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 Thanks for the welcome. Yes, I have said something like, "There are many who do what I do, lots of women care for their parents." The reply is usually something like; but they are women and are expected to care for them. I often try to make light and remind them that many women do thankless jobs, but it is always the same reply. I remember hearing an actress say something to the effect of; Women have to be better than men, for less money, look better and do it in heels to get half the respect. | |
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