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|  05-14-2013, 10:49 PM | #181 | 
| Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, syr, he Join Date: May 2013 Location: US 
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			Its been a while it seems sense anything has been posted on here. So here goes. I love my body I'm a sexy chunky delicious woman.  It took a long time to be comfortable with my wife telling me how hot I Am but With some kind words and support. I finally started seeing myself the way she does. Now I cant fit into a size 10 but when I look in the mirror I see ALL of my sexiness.  I'm strong, healthy and fat.  So to all of you big beautiful women out there that fell into this thread Because u feel bad about yourself. I say look in the mirror and LOVE those curves because you are freaking HOT!
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|  08-17-2013, 09:43 PM | #182 | 
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			Hi All,  I saw this thread, and was happy about it. I have tended to be somewhat chunky all my life, but not usually very large, and a change in medication piled on a lot of pounds last year. I may or may not lose it at some point, but it is going to be that way for a while due to health reasons. Seemed at first, I had a hard time accepting myself or feeling pretty or sexy. I had a hard time believing I was attractive, in the dating sense. Now that seems so odd... because I have dated very chunky butches and found them very handsome, I have seen many plump femmes and thought they were gorgeous and sexy. But for myself, I don't know... there was just a judgement. I appreciate these posts so much. So I am subscribing and today I posted, too!  
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|  07-17-2017, 07:31 PM | #183 | 
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|  03-29-2018, 06:23 AM | #184 | 
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			I want to express appreciation for this thread; I have enjoyed reading it! I’m not sure if the title “Big Girl Love” is meant to focus on femmes, and I say hurray for all of the positive thoughts here for fat femmes. I also want to say that I love fat butches too. Fat butches are substantial, we take up space, we are solid. Fat butches are handsome, and I feel blessed to be married to one, and to be one. | 
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|  03-29-2018, 07:36 AM | #185 | |
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