Wanting to be a man of integrity: lost cause?

[Martina]

Originally Posted by Dylan

My point is, using another person's voice who isn't part of the community you're dissecting is offensive

Just as offensive as if I were to use a man's random pontifications about why women act the way they do or using a straight person's pontifications about why queers do what they do.

Especially if you yourself are NOT part of the community you're speaking about

Dylan

i see your point, but i don't know. i do seek an explanation for what has been my experience. i don't know. i still don't know.