Would you rather ....

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Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL

WYR: be with someone who has many years experience in the s/m or someone who is honest about they are new and have read up on the subject and have gone to a few leather functions.

Without question someone honest about who they are, where they are at and what if any experience with S/M they have had - absolutely. Some people make too much about "knowledge and experience". As long as someone has courage and nerve, is patient and willing to communicate while I couldn't teach most everyone to to do S/M with just anybody I could definitely communicate my needs, learn about what they want, negotiate and then help them connect with whatever resources it is they/I need to acquire in order do S/M in a safe, sane, and consensual, responsible, mutually respectful, mutually fulfilling manner/way. One that would hopefully be pleasurable and satisfying for us both.

WYR eat, Pork or Chicken Adobo? Sorry but I have to be careful and attentive or I might burn the adobo I'm cooking right now and besides after that last uber serious question I feel a real need to inject a little levity into the situation right about now.