Not wanting to use labels

Gypsy · 05-06-2017, 07:43 AM

Not wanting to offend anyone, this is a question I've wondered on for a while and since I've never seen it here am feeling safe to ask here.

Why do people join butch/femme groups and then say they don't like labels or don't use labels. In a butch/femme group it is saying up front that it uses labels. I just read one post of how she doesn't use labels and she isn't looking for someone who does...so why would she join a butch/femme group? And I noticed she's belonged to the group for 5 months. It boggles my mind and I hope someone can explain it to me. Thank you!

05-06-2017, 07:43 AM	#1
Gypsy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: West, TX Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41 Thanked 79 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 859006	Not wanting to use labels Not wanting to offend anyone, this is a question I've wondered on for a while and since I've never seen it here am feeling safe to ask here. Why do people join butch/femme groups and then say they don't like labels or don't use labels. In a butch/femme group it is saying up front that it uses labels. I just read one post of how she doesn't use labels and she isn't looking for someone who does...so why would she join a butch/femme group? And I noticed she's belonged to the group for 5 months. It boggles my mind and I hope someone can explain it to me. Thank you!