For anyone who has ever had a LDR

kookybroad · 10-31-2010, 12:58 PM

LDR's are definitely hard, I have also had a couple and they were very nice. My thoughts on it, and again...only my thoughts are this "where is it written that the person that is right for us, has to live in the same city as we do". I just find borders very restricting.

I actually moved once for a gal and it was very good at the start, but her family had a hard time with us and she found the family pull much tighter and our relationship ended. However, that doesn't make me lose my optimism that there is someone out there for me.

I know they aren't for everyone and that hearts can get hurt. We can only do what makes our heart and soul happy.

10-31-2010, 12:58 PM	#14
kookybroad Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her/sub/ beautiful blonde goddess, lol Relationship Status: Single, and actively looking! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: winnipeg, manitoba Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19 Thanked 59 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 327	LDR's are definitely hard, I have also had a couple and they were very nice. My thoughts on it, and again...only my thoughts are this "where is it written that the person that is right for us, has to live in the same city as we do". I just find borders very restricting. I actually moved once for a gal and it was very good at the start, but her family had a hard time with us and she found the family pull much tighter and our relationship ended. However, that doesn't make me lose my optimism that there is someone out there for me. I know they aren't for everyone and that hearts can get hurt. We can only do what makes our heart and soul happy.