Confessions Are Good For The Soul

[sylvie]

Originally Posted by ravfem

i confess....

i kinda feel pity for bullies, i mean... they seem to be really miserable, you know? Sometimes i wonder about the mentality behind bullying...

sadly, i am my own bully! but, working on changing that..

i'm very mean to myself, and was stuck on that stinkin' thinkin' that would drag me down more & more, but also only attracted the kinds of people that were also all too happy to join me on my quest..

as hard as that is to admit, it's true..
once i started to grasp the concept that people only do to me what 'i' allow them to, talk about a wake up call..

so, i'm punching MY bully in the big toe and telling her to frig off, cuz i'm better than that! =)
but i totally know what you mean, i often wonder about the reason for bullying.. it makes me sad.. the anger is focused at my own bullying, but often wonder what kind of life those people have walked to get them where they are, to wanna do that to another human being..or if they're in a situation like me, to themselves..
sad, sad..very sad... =(