Trans Men and Butches Raising Femme Daughters.

[Arwen]

Originally Posted by tuffboi29

But to teach her how to be a womyn?

I wish to teach her to be a proud, independent, and respectable WOMYN.

I never understood how to be a womyn. I was never a "lady", although I attempt to teach her lady like qualities that I've observed from womyn (who happen to be femme).

I guess that would be my question. How would I accomplish that when I never truly understood it in the first place?

Honey, first you have to ask yourself if you are trying to fit her into your concept of what a woman is or isn't.

I really admire you for thinking about this for your daughter. I would say teach her to be a good human being first.

What Snow said had chops. You know? Be there for MJ. Listen to her. Make her know that you will always listen.

Hang in there.