Single Butch-Femme Questionnaire - Getting to know one another intimately...

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):Tammy

Age:42 almost 43

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 7th

Location: Upstate, NY

Height: 5' 5"

Eye Color: sparkling blue

Hair Color: blond

Piercings - how many & where: just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 1 on upper left shoulder I *just* got!

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: caretaker of the developmentally delayed

What do you like about your job?: the love I get from the people most of society has thrown away.

What do you loathe about your job?: State and federal budget cuts forcing some people to decide whether to buy meds or eat!!! ARGH!!!

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Country, hip hop, some rap, oldies, classic rock....

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites: BFP of course!

Favorite TV shows: Crime, mystery, medical shows,

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: let myself believe I can dance! Its quite comical!

What is your pet peeve: being late

Favorite curse word: Dayum!

Favorite magazine: Reader's Digest

A culture that intrigues you: the Amish

Do you like to dance? yes-if thats what you wanna call it..lol

If you could change a law which would it be? Allowing gay in every state

Do you collect anything? Monkeys


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Somewhere in the era of Gone with the Wind. I love those dresses!!!!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes if I could

Your idea of a good meal: steak, good salad bar and warm bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both depending on the situation

Dream profession: to be a doctor

What are your Hobbies: writing, singing, cooking/baking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Im not sure. I sometimes believe that I lived before when I have bits and pieces of flashbacks and dreams.

What do you get complemented on most often? My beautiful blue eyes, writing abilities; how cute my son is

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my diabetes being so fickle

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end world hunger, stop the droughts in all countries, end human traficking

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Jesus Christ

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Definitely!

Biggest concern about aging: Being financially under-prepared

What were you like in high school? a little quirky, I didn't fit in as it was such a hige taboo to be "gay"

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about: human rights, equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My son, Jacob. He is 5 so as long as it doesn't hurt him, then he's ok with it...


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme: I never considered myself as a "lesbian" though.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): see above

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: too many things to list here, but the common-sense basicsl the strong/confident type

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Ya really wanna know?? lol

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How liberating it felt to be in love and appreciated

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes I have

Age when you had your first kiss: 14

Describe your best kiss: the first time I kissed my first love passionately

Describe your last kiss: Jacob's "mommy kisses" the best in the world

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: the "strong/confident" stone/butch type mind

What trait in a woman turns you off?: those that do not take care of themselves



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Jacob when I thought he was sleeping

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? both

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sensual massage, showed their confidence;

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: wet/sloppy kissing; being obnoxiously gropy/feely

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?: some

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Honestly, no, I havn't

How often do you masturbate? very rarelly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed