social cues

lesbrarian · 09-12-2012, 09:51 AM

Does anyone else have trouble.. signalling their orientation and gender identity to other lesbians?

I realize that sounds kind of odd, but it's something I struggle with a lot. There is nothing distinctly queer about the way I present myself, and I feel like this is something that's important in meeting other queers because it's really awkward to just announce HI I'M GAY, ARE YOU?

This probably aligns itself in a lot of ways to femme invisibility. I see lots of other lesbians day to day on the bus and the street and on campus and I wish there was just some way of making some small connection that says "Hey! I recognize you and we have something in common!"

09-12-2012, 09:51 AM	#1
lesbrarian Junior Member How Do You Identify?: baby dyke Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/lover Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 26 Times in 5 Posts Rep Power: 0	social cues Does anyone else have trouble.. signalling their orientation and gender identity to other lesbians? I realize that sounds kind of odd, but it's something I struggle with a lot. There is nothing distinctly queer about the way I present myself, and I feel like this is something that's important in meeting other queers because it's really awkward to just announce HI I'M GAY, ARE YOU? This probably aligns itself in a lot of ways to femme invisibility. I see lots of other lesbians day to day on the bus and the street and on campus and I wish there was just some way of making some small connection that says "Hey! I recognize you and we have something in common!"