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I recently broke off a LDR and he and I remain best of friends. There was no drama. We had always said, if we felt it wasnt going to work, we would part as friends. He treated me so well during the relationship, that when we came to realize this could not work (for private personal reasons) we both sanely and compassionately agreed to end the romance but keep the love. I still love him and always will...but as a best friend. I feel this is how relationships should end. I use to say that two really good people can end up in a bad relationship if they are the wrong people for each other. This remains true. But also true, is that two really good people can end up in a wrong type of relationship and simply make it right by changing the form, not the love. I am so lucky to have loved this man. I cant imagine not having him in my life now. When you pick right, its right even if the form is wrong...so this time, my heart is broken but not empty...and the healing will be much easier this time than before...
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