Taking a Risk to Visit Someone You Met Online

imperfect_cupcake · 05-12-2014, 08:52 PM

I've met oodles of people from on line. Forums and webdating. I've flown cross continent to a different country. They invited me, I had the time, so I went. A great deal of them were fun but nothing really gelled. That's OK.
I think keeping expectations within reality limits are pretty important.
It only took me one lesson to keep my expectations in check.

If you do decide to do it again, you will know how to stop your fantasies from getting away with your emotions until you meet.

After the first time I tried quite hard to keep a lid on any future planning if we had not met. I think that's pretty important.

But its like anything, you don't know unless you try. And then you learn.

05-12-2014, 08:52 PM	#13
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I've met oodles of people from on line. Forums and webdating. I've flown cross continent to a different country. They invited me, I had the time, so I went. A great deal of them were fun but nothing really gelled. That's OK. I think keeping expectations within reality limits are pretty important. It only took me one lesson to keep my expectations in check. If you do decide to do it again, you will know how to stop your fantasies from getting away with your emotions until you meet. After the first time I tried quite hard to keep a lid on any future planning if we had not met. I think that's pretty important. But its like anything, you don't know unless you try. And then you learn.