Divorce: What's next??

Karysma · 08-01-2015, 11:32 AM

Thanks Shy. Wow. I can't believe that. I guess I just don't understand the lying.

I'm in a weird place - where I am oddly excited about being free of this house.. and the junk.. and the guilt.. but I still want to be with her.

I think the part of me that just want to let it go is getting stronger though. I don't want to be where I am not wanted or appreciated. I do realize that in time I will find someone who will appreciate what I have to give.

Shystonefem · 08-01-2015, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Karysma

Thanks Shy. Wow. I can't believe that. I guess I just don't understand the lying.

I'm in a weird place - where I am oddly excited about being free of this house.. and the junk.. and the guilt.. but I still want to be with her.

I think the part of me that just want to let it go is getting stronger though. I don't want to be where I am not wanted or appreciated. I do realize that in time I will find someone who will appreciate what I have to give.

Yes, you will.

Gemme · 08-01-2015, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Karysma

I'm in a weird place - where I am oddly excited about being free of this house.. and the junk.. and the guilt.. but I still want to be with her.

The unknown joy can be more frightening than the known pain.

Everyone's given you excellent advice but it boils down to is what feels right for you and, whatever you do, please don't wind up on the Jerry Springer show.

afrcnqueen · 08-01-2015, 08:32 PM

Keep your head up and don't forget your self worth.

~ocean · 08-01-2015, 09:18 PM

lolkaryyyyyyyy ~~ YOU ARE NOT ALONE ~ always be upfront w/ anyone u meet in person as well as on line ~ You dont have to jump in bed w/ anyone ~ and u don't have to hide in pain either ~ sometimes putting reality in her face will do u both good ~ live like she's gone already ~ go out and have fun w/ friends ~ be good to urself ~ don't take the blame ~ ppl grow apart theirs no guarantee anything will last forever ~ do what will make u happy ~ of course the tears will be their till u heal ~ even then u will still feel for her yrs down the line ~ once u start getting out and socializing the cheating feeling leaves ~ REALITY hits u ~ u r single not alone ~ BIG difference how u look at that ~ being single is awesome ~ just as much as marriage is ~ your future is yours to live ! put your booty jeans on and strut ur beauty ~ `

Karysma · 08-01-2015, 10:26 PM

LOL! Gemme! I am absolutely going to do everything I can to avoid Jerry Springer.

You can bank on that!

And thanks for the kind words AfricanQ. I appreciate it!

Ocean. You are so right. I am doing what I can to live the best life I can now... and trying to discover my authentic self is proving to be a little bit of a challenge but I am doing my best. I figure it will come in time.

08-01-2015, 11:32 AM	#1
Karysma Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Post Apocolyptic Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Atlanta Posts: 172 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 850 Thanked 769 Times in 148 Posts Rep Power: 13174979	Thanks Shy. Wow. I can't believe that. I guess I just don't understand the lying. I'm in a weird place - where I am oddly excited about being free of this house.. and the junk.. and the guilt.. but I still want to be with her. I think the part of me that just want to let it go is getting stronger though. I don't want to be where I am not wanted or appreciated. I do realize that in time I will find someone who will appreciate what I have to give. __________________ Karysma

08-01-2015, 08:32 PM	#4
afrcnqueen Member How Do You Identify?: By name Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happy on my journey to Self- Love!! :-) Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: where Love resides..... Posts: 278 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,176 Thanked 703 Times in 208 Posts Rep Power: 8528784	Keep your head up and don't forget your self worth. __________________ I know I'm a handful, but that's what you've got two hands for...

08-01-2015, 09:18 PM	#5
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,008 Times in 4,722 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	lolkaryyyyyyyy ~~ YOU ARE NOT ALONE ~ always be upfront w/ anyone u meet in person as well as on line ~ You dont have to jump in bed w/ anyone ~ and u don't have to hide in pain either ~ sometimes putting reality in her face will do u both good ~ live like she's gone already ~ go out and have fun w/ friends ~ be good to urself ~ don't take the blame ~ ppl grow apart theirs no guarantee anything will last forever ~ do what will make u happy ~ of course the tears will be their till u heal ~ even then u will still feel for her yrs down the line ~ once u start getting out and socializing the cheating feeling leaves ~ REALITY hits u ~ u r single not alone ~ BIG difference how u look at that ~ being single is awesome ~ just as much as marriage is ~ your future is yours to live ! put your booty jeans on and strut ur beauty ~ ` __________________ ~ Always, ocean

08-01-2015, 10:26 PM	#6
Karysma Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Post Apocolyptic Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Atlanta Posts: 172 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 850 Thanked 769 Times in 148 Posts Rep Power: 13174979	LOL! Gemme! I am absolutely going to do everything I can to avoid Jerry Springer. You can bank on that! And thanks for the kind words AfricanQ. I appreciate it! Ocean. You are so right. I am doing what I can to live the best life I can now... and trying to discover my authentic self is proving to be a little bit of a challenge but I am doing my best. I figure it will come in time. __________________ Karysma

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