Butch/Femme Insemination and Family Dynamics

[cali4nyaprincess23]

If anybody has any experience with artificial insemination we'd love to hear from you. Tcbbutch and I are planning on starting a family in the next year and stumbled across one problem. What would our child call my stone butch partner? I'm going to be mom of course but, we are trying to figure out a name for the kids to call hym. If you have any name ideas from your own experiences or know others that have done this too please throw out some ideas. We already talked about "dad" and that isn't what my partner really wants to go by. We'd really love to hear from individuals that have this experience but all responses welcome. Thank You!