30's Crowd - Page 3

Strappie · 05-09-2010, 10:59 AM

I think I'm still in my 30's and act like I'm in my 20's... Does that count at 44? lol

chefjenn · 05-09-2010, 11:09 AM

I'm in my 30's act like I"m in my 20's and don't mind at all. =) work hard to play hard.

Leigh · 05-09-2010, 11:36 AM

Hi there to My fellow 30 somethings

I just turned 30 in March so I'm sure that I have lots to look forward to, hope its everything its supposed to be

ALittleStar4You · 05-09-2010, 11:49 AM

Just turned 30 too. Back in February. I suppose its not as terrible as i thought it would be back when i was younger! LOL

Strappie · 05-09-2010, 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ALittleStar4You

Just turned 30 too. Back in February. I suppose its not as terrible as i thought it would be back when i was younger! LOL

We aren't as old as we thought ey! lol

chefjenn · 05-12-2010, 11:02 AM

my 30's have been the best years of my life so far on a whole. Financially, emotionally, spiritually...
In my teens I thought I knew everything. By my early 20's I was pretty much sure of it..The second half of my 20's and the beginning of my 30's have been spent re-learning what I thought I already knew. If that makes sense. It took everything I have gone through in my life to get to where I'm at now.. and I look forward to what the 30's bring.. =)

adorable · 05-12-2010, 11:12 AM

I'm 35 and know senior citizens that have a more exciting life then I do. I'm really too old for the clubscene - 20 somethings spilling beer on me just doesn't amuse me like it did when I was 20 something. I'm too young to join a bowling league - 50 somethings spilling beer on me doesn't appeal to me yet. And I'm too out of shape to join a softball leauge. Sigh.

My daughters think I'm old. In fact my youngest said that she thought Madonna was dead a few days ago. She was shocked to find out she was still alive. I have to fight with my right hand and brush to not do 80s hair when I'm getting ready to go out. It took a few years to not want to roll my jeans. I've finally accepted the wide leg look and now - fuck - it's skinny jeans that are all the rage!

Somedays I miss the simplicity of playing the Oregon Trail on those neon green screens in the state of the art computer lab in Jr. high. lol. All three computers that played the one game and I failed typing tests on. I miss being in a boys car only because he had a car phone. LMFAO! Remember those? Actually attached to the car and the size of an infant.

I'm at that age where I know just enough to be dangerous....and still think that Lita Ford was badass.

sylvie · 05-17-2010, 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by adorable

I'm 35 and know senior citizens that have a more exciting life then I do.

My daughters think I'm old. In fact my youngest said that she thought Madonna was dead a few days ago. She was shocked to find out she was still alive. I have to fight with my right hand and brush to not do 80s hair when I'm getting ready to go out. It took a few years to not want to roll my jeans. I've finally accepted the wide leg look and now - fuck - it's skinny jeans that are all the rage!

LOL, i can relate...
most days i feel like its wake up, work, home, sleep... day 2, repeat, etc ..
where's the excitement? hah...

& my children think i'm ancient! and wow, my son is turning 17 in 2 days! i find this harder to swallow than the fact i'll be turning 38 in Feb!

Zimmeh · 05-17-2010, 05:55 AM

Braedon,

Once you get out of your twenties, you realize, how much life is different. For me, I am 36, I have quit my job and moved back home. I am loving the fact of having all of my experiences in life to tell my oldest niece and nephew. I hope my experiences in life, help them. I want to see them go to college earlier than I did.

Have a good day,

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by Braedon

Hi there to My fellow 30 somethings

I just turned 30 in March so I'm sure that I have lots to look forward to, hope its everything its supposed to be

Zimmeh · 05-17-2010, 06:10 AM

I am enjoying being in my 30's and wouldn't give it up if I could. I have learned how not to take negative people with a grain of salt and allow their negativity to roll off of my back. Appreciating life and knowing that fate had something good in store for me and that is why I am now back home on the East Coast of Florida. Telling my oldest niece and nephew about the traveling I have done and how I have lived in Boston for awhile. How I am still dreaming of having a baby and having my best friend ask me if I am crazy about raising it on my own. Still listening to the music I grew up with, I am still a die hard Crue fan and laughing at my best friend's little boy the other day when he started dancing to GN'R's November Rain.

I wouldn't give these memories up for nothing.

Have a good day,

Zimmy

stonebutchinpa · 05-21-2010, 11:16 AM

I'll be 35 this year and so far my 30's have been pretty good. There are days when I act like I'm still in my 20's and other days when I feel 50. One day at a time is all we can do.

dixie · 05-21-2010, 11:36 AM

I thought 30 was a death sentence...until I turned 30...lol

I'll be 31 in July, and I've finally realized that 30s aren't so bad... I'm actually enjoying it. And I don't know why, but for some strange reason I've noticed that people treat you differently when you say you're in your 30s instead of when they did when you were in your 20s. It's like they magically assume maturity comes with leaving the 20s...lol The "respect for maturity" aspect is good...although I do still get carded when I head to the club... but even still, I hope THAT lasts til I'm 50! It's such an ego booster! lol

adorable · 05-21-2010, 01:47 PM

I could buy cigarrettes and beer when I was 16 - no ID needed. <---Of course not that I did anything of the sort!

Now with all the laws, the poor 13 year olds selling the stuff at the grocery store are so scared that they'll card you for buying a lighter.

lillith · 05-23-2010, 08:01 PM

Being a Gen Xer is not as bad as the baby boomers and Gen Y thinks. I think we have seen some pretty damn amazing and horrifying events in our lifetime. We are the generation that that saw the advent of home computers, JR get shot, and disco lose the race to grunge. We are witness to many great things and we should be proud as beans to have out lived some of the world's worse pandemics. We are hard workers, but not willing to break our backs for a buck (smarter than the last generation, I say), but not so spoiled that we expect our parents to take care us in their golden years. Cheers to us Gen Xers!

Nat · 05-23-2010, 08:21 PM

I find comfort in the fact that my generation is aging with me. I wouldn't mind getting to be a bit more immortal, but I wouldn't want to be part of those younger generations. I'm attached to Gen X, and I suspect I still will be when we're old.

Star Anise · 07-09-2011, 04:43 AM

***Late entry***

I am a proud member of the 30's crowd, 33 is a great number!

J. Mason · 08-30-2011, 09:57 PM

HOLY CRAP I found it thank god there are others on here that are in my age group!

HOWDY everyone!

dixie · 08-30-2011, 09:59 PM

Hey! I totally forgot about this thread!

<-------32

J. Mason · 08-30-2011, 10:06 PM

< 34 year old fart LOL

cara · 08-30-2011, 10:19 PM

Glad to see this thread!

I remember when there were just a handful of people my age when I first discovered the online butch-femme communities about 10 years ago. I'm 34 now. My, how time and perspective change!

05-09-2010, 11:09 AM	#42
chefjenn Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: Chef. Ms. She Relationship Status: cautiously looking. Secretly crushing <3 Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Iowa City, Iowa Posts: 39 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 27 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 19	What if.. I'm in my 30's act like I"m in my 20's and don't mind at all. =) work hard to play hard.

05-09-2010, 11:49 AM	#44
ALittleStar4You Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: complicated Join Date: May 2010 Location: NH Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 14 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 26	Just turned 30 too. Back in February. I suppose its not as terrible as i thought it would be back when i was younger! LOL __________________ Amanda is a Little Star for you!

05-12-2010, 11:02 AM	#46
chefjenn Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: Chef. Ms. She Relationship Status: cautiously looking. Secretly crushing <3 Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Iowa City, Iowa Posts: 39 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 27 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 19	I think... my 30's have been the best years of my life so far on a whole. Financially, emotionally, spiritually... In my teens I thought I knew everything. By my early 20's I was pretty much sure of it..The second half of my 20's and the beginning of my 30's have been spent re-learning what I thought I already knew. If that makes sense. It took everything I have gone through in my life to get to where I'm at now.. and I look forward to what the 30's bring.. =)

05-17-2010, 06:10 AM	#50
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I am enjoying being in my 30's and wouldn't give it up if I could. I have learned how not to take negative people with a grain of salt and allow their negativity to roll off of my back. Appreciating life and knowing that fate had something good in store for me and that is why I am now back home on the East Coast of Florida. Telling my oldest niece and nephew about the traveling I have done and how I have lived in Boston for awhile. How I am still dreaming of having a baby and having my best friend ask me if I am crazy about raising it on my own. Still listening to the music I grew up with, I am still a die hard Crue fan and laughing at my best friend's little boy the other day when he started dancing to GN'R's November Rain. I wouldn't give these memories up for nothing. Have a good day, Zimmy __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

05-23-2010, 08:01 PM	#54
lillith Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, hey you! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 204 Thanked 687 Times in 224 Posts Rep Power: 5173241	Being a Gen Xer is not as bad as the baby boomers and Gen Y thinks. I think we have seen some pretty damn amazing and horrifying events in our lifetime. We are the generation that that saw the advent of home computers, JR get shot, and disco lose the race to grunge. We are witness to many great things and we should be proud as beans to have out lived some of the world's worse pandemics. We are hard workers, but not willing to break our backs for a buck (smarter than the last generation, I say), but not so spoiled that we expect our parents to take care us in their golden years. Cheers to us Gen Xers! __________________ now how can you ignore a dancing pink elephant? and how i so wish it would rain here.

05-09-2010, 10:59 AM	#41
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,945 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I think I'm still in my 30's and act like I'm in my 20's... Does that count at 44? lol

05-09-2010, 11:36 AM	#43
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Hi there to My fellow 30 somethings I just turned 30 in March so I'm sure that I have lots to look forward to, hope its everything its supposed to be

05-12-2010, 11:12 AM	#47
adorable Member How Do You Identify?: Sarcastically Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home of the Yankee's Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,708 Thanked 2,644 Times in 590 Posts Rep Power: 12725119	I'm 35 and know senior citizens that have a more exciting life then I do. I'm really too old for the clubscene - 20 somethings spilling beer on me just doesn't amuse me like it did when I was 20 something. I'm too young to join a bowling league - 50 somethings spilling beer on me doesn't appeal to me yet. And I'm too out of shape to join a softball leauge. Sigh. My daughters think I'm old. In fact my youngest said that she thought Madonna was dead a few days ago. She was shocked to find out she was still alive. I have to fight with my right hand and brush to not do 80s hair when I'm getting ready to go out. It took a few years to not want to roll my jeans. I've finally accepted the wide leg look and now - fuck - it's skinny jeans that are all the rage! Somedays I miss the simplicity of playing the Oregon Trail on those neon green screens in the state of the art computer lab in Jr. high. lol. All three computers that played the one game and I failed typing tests on. I miss being in a boys car only because he had a car phone. LMFAO! Remember those? Actually attached to the car and the size of an infant. I'm at that age where I know just enough to be dangerous....and still think that Lita Ford was badass.

05-21-2010, 11:16 AM	#51
stonebutchinpa Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Whatever Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: PA Posts: 125 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 223 Thanked 168 Times in 52 Posts Rep Power: 1282519	I'll be 35 this year and so far my 30's have been pretty good. There are days when I act like I'm still in my 20's and other days when I feel 50. One day at a time is all we can do.

05-21-2010, 11:36 AM	#52
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I thought 30 was a death sentence...until I turned 30...lol I'll be 31 in July, and I've finally realized that 30s aren't so bad... I'm actually enjoying it. And I don't know why, but for some strange reason I've noticed that people treat you differently when you say you're in your 30s instead of when they did when you were in your 20s. It's like they magically assume maturity comes with leaving the 20s...lol The "respect for maturity" aspect is good...although I do still get carded when I head to the club... but even still, I hope THAT lasts til I'm 50! It's such an ego booster! lol

05-21-2010, 01:47 PM	#53
adorable Member How Do You Identify?: Sarcastically Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home of the Yankee's Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,708 Thanked 2,644 Times in 590 Posts Rep Power: 12725119	I could buy cigarrettes and beer when I was 16 - no ID needed. <---Of course not that I did anything of the sort! Now with all the laws, the poor 13 year olds selling the stuff at the grocery store are so scared that they'll card you for buying a lighter.

05-23-2010, 08:21 PM	#55
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender (DID System) Preferred Pronoun?: he/him or alter-specific Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Central TX Posts: 3,537 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,047 Thanked 13,971 Times in 2,591 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I find comfort in the fact that my generation is aging with me. I wouldn't mind getting to be a bit more immortal, but I wouldn't want to be part of those younger generations. I'm attached to Gen X, and I suspect I still will be when we're old. __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl

07-09-2011, 04:43 AM	#56
Star Anise Member How Do You Identify?: Femme in boots. Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Free range femme. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: St Kilda. Melbourne. Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 256 Thanked 539 Times in 88 Posts Rep Power: 4729077	*Late entry* I am a proud member of the 30's crowd, 33 is a great number! __________________ ~~Anise x http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/k...rsona/bfrs.jpg Who's my Daddi?

08-30-2011, 09:57 PM	#57
J. Mason Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Banned 11/9/2011 - Previously banned member back under new name Preferred Pronoun?: He and His Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Texas/Oklahoma Posts: 861 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 250 Thanked 741 Times in 361 Posts Rep Power: 0	HOLY CRAP I found it thank god there are others on here that are in my age group! HOWDY everyone!

08-30-2011, 09:59 PM	#58
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Hey! I totally forgot about this thread! <-------32

08-30-2011, 10:06 PM	#59
J. Mason Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Banned 11/9/2011 - Previously banned member back under new name Preferred Pronoun?: He and His Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Texas/Oklahoma Posts: 861 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 250 Thanked 741 Times in 361 Posts Rep Power: 0	< 34 year old fart LOL

08-30-2011, 10:19 PM	#60
cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,995 Thanked 13,254 Times in 2,725 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Yay! Glad to see this thread! I remember when there were just a handful of people my age when I first discovered the online butch-femme communities about 10 years ago. I'm 34 now. My, how time and perspective change! __________________ "The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit." ~Wade Davis

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