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			 I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in the darkness the astonishing light of your own being." 
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			"Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.~Oprah Winfrey
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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		#19086 | 
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	I hope to develop Arms that are strong Hands that are gentle Ears that will listen Eyes that are kind A tongue that will speak softly A mind full of wisdom And a heart that understands. ~Javan  | 
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			If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches; for the Creator, there is no poverty. Rainer Maria Rilke 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence  
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			 Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them.  
		Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love's leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don't- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover....  | 
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			 "Life is a spell so exquisite that everything conspires to break it." 
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