How do you know someone is..

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by Linus

Now, the reason for this question/thread/poll isn't a matter of testing one's basic gaydar but a question of how much we let that basic gaydar cloud our thought process about others and "how butch/femme" they are.

Here is the thing Linus, my gaydar doesn't just look for b/f make sense? If I spot queers I get giddy, cause yanno it's like hey there is more of me!! I don't automatically *assign* butch or femme since well they could be dyke, queer, gay or simple Cindy and Sharon.

Make sense?

[Linus]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Here is the thing Linus, my gaydar doesn't just look for b/f make sense? If I spot queers I get giddy, cause yanno it's like hey there is more of me!! I don't automatically *assign* butch or femme since well they could be dyke, queer, gay or simple Cindy and Sharon.

Make sense?

Oh ya, totally. I do look for others as well (particularly transsexed individuals -- to borrow Dylan's term).